Self confidence is a style. Don't nag.
2006-10-06 13:14:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I build mine by going to nerd conventions (like anime or star wars) and then wearing a hot outfit with knee highs and short skirts. Maybe just cause I'm attracted to a guy with a mind, but I love it when they stare!
2006-10-06 13:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Tericka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just smile all the time, and appreciate the things you do have, and don't focus on things you don't have. If you already have a lot, then start giving. Begin your day with a prayer first thing in the morning, and end the day with a prayer at night. Just ask God for the confidence, and you'll have so much of it you won't know what to do with all of it.
2006-10-06 20:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by me2007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to develop. First, you have to learn how to accept yourself. The good, bad and ugly. Everyone has good and bad qualities so don't beat yourself up when your not perfect. Second, focus on what your good qualities are. Are you smart, funny, good with people, generous in spirit, a hard worker, dependable, etc...? When you feel down on yourself, focus on what you know the good points are and forgive yourself the rest. Last, don't compare yourself to others. There will always be somebody who has something you wish you had. You, on the other hand, may have attributes that THEY wish they had.
2006-10-06 20:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by sunnygirl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By Jumping out of an Airplane and Sky diving. By riding a Harley
down the freeway at 100 mph. Doing things your afraid of.
2006-10-06 20:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I was very shy and had no self confidence. Then I entered a pageant and thought to myself I can do it, just be yourself and hold your head hight! Pageants really work wonders for self confidence!!!
2006-10-06 20:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sabrina J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem -- it goves some good outlooks and approaches.
Basically, by being a person of integrity, and by setting and working toward goals so you can be proud of yourself.
2006-10-06 20:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A style ? self confidence comes thru achieving success...
2006-10-06 20:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by aqualovr1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let's be realisitic, when your depressed, you don't buy "believe in yourself" crap. You have to make small goals, getting larger everytime until, "hey, I made it through." Step by step, with time. And of course, some jokes to cheer you up never hurt.
2006-10-06 20:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of something you like about yourself every morning and hang on to itduring te day.Try to come up with something different everyday,if you can't,just stick with whatever you already have.
2006-10-06 20:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Direktor 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Act with confidence and then you will be confident.
2006-10-06 20:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by eddygordo19 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋