Are all women GOLD-DIGGERS...?

Question

I mean is it programmed into them to go for the richest guys for security? I used to be skint as a student, and no-one looked at me...Now that Im a successful business man wit a flash car, they wont leave alone....some them are so desperate they make me cringe...why do they do this?

Answer 1

Not all women are gold diggers some like silver.

Answer 2

No, all women are not gold diggers. I for one am not and never was a gold digger. I see it like this the same way you get your moeny something happens the same way you can loose your moeny. This life down here is only tmeporary. They do this because of the money and car you have. They know that you will be able to buy them what they want they are mainly into your car and money and not you. THey just want to show you off to their friends and brag, Why I do not know cause I am not a gold digger at all. But from what I see they are all about the materialistic items and not into the person for who they are but for what they have but they do not think at all about what if something happens and it is all gone the next day, I know what they will do leave you and move on to the next one who has the same you had, unless you just so happen to find a good gold digger who will stay by your side through thick and thin but I don't know of any. SMILE!!

Answer 3

I've never even been flirted with (at age 20), so I can't really answer that question. It could be security. Or that they're too lazy to work, so going for the rich guys means that they'll be financially stable enough to not only not need to go to work but also hire maids, nannies, etc. to do the housework and yardwork. It could also be that they were raised to believe that looks, money, etc., are the most important aspects of a relationship.

I'm not like that, though. If and when I ever do get my first boyfriend, it'll be because of what I consider to be important in a relationship: personality, similar interests, etc. Basically, even though I have no experience to back me up, I'm an example that not all girls are money-obsessed when it comes to relationships.

Answer 4

The answer to your question is the same answer to this question: Are all men dick heads ??? As, a successful business man you must have learned along the way that it not wise to make gross generalizations about anything. I drive a high performance car myself and get hit on at stop lights in parking lots quite often. I'm single but wear a ring on my left hand just to deter idiots who think they can score because they compliment my car and then me. If you truly want to be left alone buy yourself a gold wedding ring and just flash it their way if they continue to be obnoxious say you're happily married or if they pay you a compliment say, "thanks my wife tells me that all the time!" It works ! You will have to master taking the ring off quickly if you spot some one who does turn your head. The women you've encountered, acting so desperate probably assume you're an emptied headed play thing just like them. And it's sad but true "some women" will settle just to be taken care of...

Answer 5

Well to answer your question, no we are not all gold diggers! The same thing happens to women you know! Secondly, what is a skint? Sounds like you are a little bitter, and a little stuck on yourself! Flashy cars don't impress me! The best things in life are free anyway!

Answer 6

Not all girls are like that. some Man do the same thing. But some women want a man with money because alot of the want someone to take care of the. the big house,nice car, you know. But not all women are GOLD-DIGGERS

Answer 7

Sorry, I totally fell in love with my husband and he is poorer than dirt, well, not really that bad, but I don't really think about money when dating someone unless they can't hold down a job or something, that just shows bad character. I think maybe you are encouraging the situation. I know a girl who is like this and she will not date a guy who doesn't dress flashy all the time, doesn't buy her things all the time, and doesn't basically look like a trophy. Don't buy stuff for them or give into that kind of behavior and they will probably not want to date you.

Answer 8

No we're not. I wouldn't call myself rich, but I don't need a man to take care of me. I have my own business, house, and a great new car. My boyfriend earns a lot less than me and I could not care less about that, oh and if I were a gold digger, I certainly wouldn't choose to date a fireman that's for sure!

Answer 9

At the most basic biological level all women instictively desire two things. Children and the resources to raise them. Yes, in a way they are all sperm-bandits and goldiggers. It's just that some of them have more finesse than others and as they mature and have their kids and get their house and income sorted by whatever means necessary they learn to appreciate other things.

Answer 10

I guess it's like men who go for what they think are 'the most beautiful women'
Some people are blinded by money or beauty. They think it'll make them happier!
Maybe, get to know someone properly, without getting too involved too fast. Don't take them home in your nice car, to your nice apartment/house etc bit old fashioned maybe, but then they'll get to know the real you first before seeing what comes with the package.

Answer 11

i can personally say that i don't think all women are gold diggers i know i am not. my guy has an awesome job with awesome pay and works out of town and has to travel alot..i would so rather him work in town and make less so i could see him more..money isn't everything..it can't make up for memories or lost time no matter how much money you have.