i have openly been gay since i was 18 i have known him since we were 14 . well he always seemed a little fem. i just moved back to my home town and now he is married with 2 kids. but now recently he has been wanting to hang out alot and is always asking questions about the whole gay life thing. the other day he showed up with porn gay porn and we put it on and watched it. well he began to masturbate. and i was kind of shocked and did not want to embarrase him so i did not say anything. hes been calling me alot lately and i dont know what to do. i feel awful. him being married and all. also last week he showed up drunk to my house and was very flirtatious he even offered me oral. yeah i know . but i said no. lightly not to offend. what should i do if you have advice let me know.thanks he was always a real good friend my best friend actually . and he calls constantly now.
2006-10-06 13:09:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
youve already answerd your question here . your actions show that hes a wrong type to have relationship with . im straight guy but i belieave your gay or your straight and anything in between is confusion . my advise is stay his friend but dont further confuse his problem by helping him destroy his marrige . be thare when he dose this on his own then help him find out if hes truely gay or just confused otherwise your setting yourself up for hurt here . i dont ubderstand gay lifestyle but i do understand human emotions and right is right and wrong is wrong and as long as hes married any sex outside of it is adultery and gay or not you dont want to be a part of that emotion. instead try to help him save his marrige and find his lost feelings for his wife and in the end youll have better friend for this .
2006-10-06 13:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 22:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by itani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems your old friend is in trouble but it's not really clear if he's turning to you for help or just wants to be "in trouble" with you ~ non the less... he needs help since he's a family man that is living a seperate and different life and obviously not happy about it all (getting drunk). I sometimes feel if your not part of the solution, you're part of the problem. So, as a good friend to him, I think you need to tell him to confront his wife ~ honestly ~ how he feels ~ what he's up to ~ and they get counseling together AND to stay clear of you for awhile until he's made that attempt to be fair to his family and himself first of all....
2006-10-06 13:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by halo_huntress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he feels more comfortable around you since he has known you for years, and knows that your gay. Since he's curious, he probably wants to experiment with you. He's too afraid to just go have gay sexual relations with someone he doesnt know. Just let him know that your not going to do anything with him, and your not trying to be in a big mess when he cheats on his wife with another man.
2006-10-06 13:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋