I've been the man I consider the love of my life, we've known each other for 8 yrs. I love him alot and he says he loves me too and really likes and loves me and wants to be with me, but he's not sure if he wants to fully commit to me. because men are always trying to talk to me, he thinks i attract to much attention and will eventually hook up with someone else. another problem he claims he has is that I have too many male friends( they are just friends no physical attraction at all) but on the other hand he has alot of females friends some which he dated in the past, be he tries to justify it by saying men friends are different from female friends b/c men just want to sleep with the women, but women friends are not about that..but on the contrary is in actuality another womens friend..which conflicts with his reasoning.
Well the real question and problem;rather, is that I am pregnant with his baby, and hopes he'll change and commit, what do you think? is he just a loser man or ??
2006-10-06 13:08:46 · 2 answers · asked by finallyamommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
*** I forgot a word in the 1st sentence,**** I've been WITH...
2006-10-06 13:17:32 · update #1
He will not marry a woman he got pregnant, he is a loser.
2006-10-06 13:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by kljj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest about how you feel and about the baby. It sounds as though there are some trust issues and insecurities. He has to resolve both himself. Those are internal issues which you can't fix for him. He does have both rights and responsibilities as a father,which is a seperate issue from your relationship issues.
If he feels trapped into a commited relationship with you because of the baby, he will in time resent both you and the baby for it. The baby and the babies mother are priority now.
2006-10-06 20:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by big dawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋