I cant attract girls for the life of me....any tips...plus dont look down on me or I swear I'll cut your belly open...
2006-10-06 13:01:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
i think that the personality makes someone attractive - me and my friends have had this conversation a few times and we all agree that you dont necessarilly have to be good looking to be sexy - it's something to do with the way a person holds themself and how they act.
i'm sure you're not unattractive, it's just your own perception of yourself - and besides what is beautiful to one person is ugly to another - everyone finds different things attractive. try to have a little more confidence and faith in yourself.
have you tried approaching girls on a friendly level first? i know of a lot of relationships that have developed from being friends and then developing feelings for each other based on that (that's actually how me and my hubby got together).
good luck :-)
2006-10-06 23:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kerri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well threatening to "cut your belly open" isn't a great ice breaker. Coming from a girl, I'm 100% sure girls are not attracted to you beacuse you're an "ugly swine"......girls are most probably not attracted/interested because of many factors, but none of them involve looks. Many girls don't venture out into the world looking for a boyfriend or even a date, most time it's sprung up from a friendship, Maybe you're coming on too strong, or you're coming across desperate. Those two things can be the biggest turn off for a girl and you're guarenteed they won't be interested. Try a more relaxed attitude, treat girls like friends rather than meat, and do not expect that the first girl you ask out will say yes.
When you do get to the point where the "time is right".....NEVER...EVER ask a girl if you can kiss her. The feeling should be mutual and never forced.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-06 14:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
---Be well groomed from head to toe. Pay for a good hair cut go to a stylist. Hands--- should be well manicured ..no dirt under the nails. If your hands are gross no one will want to hold them. Have a classic style. Classics never go out of style. And good wardrope pieces, shoes, jackets, slacks of quality last a life time and are worth the investment. You should take care of your teeth, what ever it takes to have them look their best. Regular dental cleaning, teeth brightening-- what ever it takes. It will boost your self confidence if you can look in the mirror and like what you see looking back! Also, it would help alot if you stopped calling yourself an ugly swine.
2006-10-06 13:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found the " don't look down on me or I swear I'll cut your belly open" line doesn't work to well with the ladies,
2006-10-06 13:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the psycho tendancy is putting us girls off. Generally I am taller than most guys so you would probably cut my belly open for looking down on you so I wouldn't want to know.
2006-10-08 08:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by rehad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know, one thing that always makes a guy attractive in my eyes is when they're just being themselves. For me, guys who are trying too hard to be all cool, smooth and sophisticated are major turn-offs. Just relax, be yourself and let the conversation flow. Let things work out for themselves and see where they take you. It's okay to stumble in front of her and make yourself look goofy at times. Girls usually like that. They think it's adorable and makes you more approachable. Good luck!
2006-10-06 13:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cubitpipi a fan of Amazins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sayed, maybe you are not ugly, have you thought it may be your persona? if you threaten people, the ladies may be afraid of you did you think about that?.
You may be a really nice guy but saying things like this are not good, and is usually a cover up for your true personality, try being a little nicer and the ladies situation will improve.
good luck
2006-10-06 13:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow relax there is someone for everyone. Stop looking it will come to you. Don't be so hard on yoUrself. Take a shower brush ur teeth get a hair cut put on clean cloths it will come have faith
2006-10-06 13:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by prizelady88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an ugly swine? So am I? Glad to meet you!!
2006-10-06 13:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by bobbi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont threaten people you knife wielding t w a t....ill shoot you.
You can't get women, due to the last bit of your question.
They know your a t w a t.
2006-10-06 13:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by ben b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋