ok through a series of recent events i have come 2 realize that one of my friends is only my friend cuz i have a car! I realized this cuz i got in n accident n my car got pretty messed up n since its gettin fixed now n its gonna b a whie. but now all of sudden she doesnt hardly wanna talk 2 me n im thinkin its cuz i dont have my car ne more!
i wanna kno how when i do get my car back i let her know that i cant be her friend anymore cuz im aware of the fact that shes only my friend 4 my car! help!
2006-10-06 12:46:45 · 18 answers · asked by ♥star.light 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her the truth and find a new friend or two.
2006-10-06 12:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that she was just using you for a ride and nothing else, you're smart and you picked up on that, right away, good girl! Two can play that game, here's how you show her, that you're the better player. When you get your car back, from being fixed, don't call her or anything, she will find out real quickly, that you have it back and when she trie's to call you for a ride, you simply tell her that her friendship, is not needed anymore and when you were down and out, without a car, she wanted nothing to do with you, now you want nothing to do with her. See, it's time's like this, when a persons friendship, is put to the test, a true friend is going to be your friend, no matter what, through thick and thin, never turning their back on you. You know something, you should be thankful, that your car broke down, or else you would have never found out, how your so called friend, really was. Whatever you do, when you get your car back, don't believe any excuses she comes up with, just to get in your car again, because you know it's just lie's. Drop her like a bad habit, as she did you and do it with no regrets, good luck!
2006-10-06 13:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be her friend--you just don't have to give her a ride anymore-once you get your car fixed. Friendship works both ways--tell her that. Maybe she doesn't even realize thats why she's been hanging out with you. You don't have to be confrontational to get your point across. Did she ever offer to give you gas money? Maybe in the future if she wants to ride she has to pay first. Just something to think about.
2006-10-06 12:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Linda s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say any thing to her about her being your friend, because of the car. But when you do get the car back, when she tries to talk to you, you can speak, but be always busy, and do not have time for her. You can't take her, because you have to go this place and that place, Say talk to you later! Give her a piece of her own medicine!
2006-10-06 12:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even go there, as matter of fact I would always be going in the opposite direction she needs a ride in. There are givers and takers in this world, it doesn't take long to figure out which is which, and when a giver has nothing to give the taker is long gone. Sorry I know it sucks, it is really disappointing to think you have a friend only to find out they are using you.
2006-10-06 12:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test her, but do it where she'll also realize it. Ask her if she wants to hang out, now we already know she's going to say no since u dont have a car right now. Keep badgering her about it for awhile. When you get your car back, wait for her to call you for YOU to hang out and tell her *** NO. Just be like "So now that I got my car back, U wanna hang with me?" and see how she reacts to it. Then let it be known that your done with her.
2006-10-06 12:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does not want to talk to you. Well thats cool don't talk to her and talk to your true friends. Once you get your car back if she wants to talk to you. You tell her, "Now u want to be my friend cuz I have a car well that is not a true friend."
2006-10-06 13:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by diana t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel like you can ask her whats going on? If so - just ask her what's going on - since your car has been gone you haven't heard from her. If you don't think you can do that- wait to see if you hear from her and if you don't when you get your car back- just don't drive her anywhere.
2006-10-06 12:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should make sure your friend is only your friend because of your car. If she is, then I suggest you tell her in a calm way that her liking you only for your car is not the trait you look for in a good friend. If she gets mad, just let that ***** deal with it. :)
2006-10-06 12:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her friend that friend that walk together, talk together. And your car does not have room for fare weather friends.
Remind her how when you were walking she didn't have time for you, and that now you have your car back, you don't have time for her.
2006-10-06 12:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by dee-dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋