my ex still loves me but its hard for us to see each other cause he is still married as i am too. we both got married only eight montha after we broke up. my husband continuosly cheats on me with phone sex and chat rooms girls. i am just really confused. i care for my husband but am still deeply in love with my ex. me and my husband have no kids together so there is no real reason for me sticking it out. i know this sounds all jumbled up. i just dont know if is worth endind a marriage for my ex or sticking it out with my husband
2006-10-06 12:42:30 · 11 answers · asked by manuelgbm3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, dont stay if you dont love him. Dont stay if hes cheating on you. Dont stay if you love someone else.
Its not a healthy situation for you. If there are no kids involved, what are you waiting for.? Get outa there gf, you can do it! Dont put yourself thru anymore in that relationship.
Even if your ex isnt available, you should still get out of your marriage. Quit making excuses, and GO.
2006-10-06 12:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because there aren't any children involved doesn't mean the marriage isn't worth fighting for. You made a commitment to your present Husband to forsake all others for him. As for this Ex-Husband......ummmm, isn't there a reason he's your Ex-Husband!! If you love him so dayum much why did you divorce him, and re-marry so quickly? What...are you bored? Get a dog, not a Husband!
And, there's something your obviously not giving to your present Husband, because he feels the need to waste his time on cyber/phone porn when he has a beautiful wife right at home to satisfy all his needs......right/or am I wrong?
Own up to what's pushing your Husband to utilize those horrible outlets for his sexual desires. What's pushing him may be that he knows your communicating with your Ex-Husband( who remember is your Ex for a reason), and feels like you don't care/love/respect/admire him. If you don't act soon to salvage your present marriage ( which is more important than wondering if it can work w/your Ex) your Husband will get him a nice whore to handle all the things your not. And then you'll be on Yahoo! asking us how to get your Husband to stop messing with his whore, who shows him far more attention than you ever did, cause you were too busy wondering about the Ex-Husband, and not taking care of home.
2006-10-06 13:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, the drama. One issue at a time.
1- If your husband is cheating, end it before you end up with a disease from him. This has nothing to do with the boyfriend.
2- If the boyfriend is unhappy, he should divorce and THEN start dating you. Otherwise, you're trading one cheater for another. Don't start anything with anyone unless you're both divorced.
2006-10-06 12:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
defiantly follow your heart. I would say that you need to get out of that marriage if he is cheating and such. That's not a HEALTHY relationship. Maybe work on getting back with your ex (if the feelings are mutral and he leaves his wife). Sometimes ppl make mistakes and get rid of their TRUE LOVE. That sounds like what you may have done.
good luck and BE HAPPY!
2006-10-06 12:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is cheating on you. If he will not stop, leave him. He needs help and you deserve a faithful man. Do not jump right into a relationship with your ex either. He is a married man and that is not the solution. If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you.
2006-10-06 13:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Robin N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your not happy with your marriage, then you must go, don't stay their for the sake of you have too, you deserver more than that, as for your ex , if he is married stay away, get a man that is free, no ties, and that loves you for who you are, don't live in the past, there is alot of men out their that would love you the way you are, and will treat you as there princess. don't accept secpmd best. you ow it too yourselfe
2006-10-06 12:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try a trial seperation and try to sort out your feelings for both men. I would not recommend going back to an ex ( there is a reason he is anex isnt there?) however if you are in a loveless marriage I would not stay.
2006-10-06 12:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to work it out with your hubby because the grass is not greener on the other side !really how do you really know if your ex would leave his wife for you ? you must have been in love with your hubby to get married to him i think you both need to sit down and talk and try marriage counselor.good luck
2006-10-06 12:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Christine M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would leave your husband he is disrepecting you. But remember there is a reason why your ex is your ex. Don't expect different results from the same behavior. good luck
2006-10-06 12:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest you leave both of them alone. Support yourself. Enjoy being single for awhile.
2006-10-06 13:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by fred k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋