I go to college now and my guy "friend" goes to run high school still but he has came up to my college like 3 days out of the week to talk to me but lately it bothers me because he runs his mouth about everything such as: he told this one guy that he was my b-t-h and everything and theres no need for that...so i said if hes gonna come to the college to do that then he cant come to my house anymore then hes like well he is gonna come to the college anyways to talk to his "friends" he knows which is my friends and he wouldnt have known them if not for me, so i said you can talk to the people you know, but you dont know me anymore. Do you think I was too mean or he deserved it?
2006-10-06 12:40:17 · 11 answers · asked by Kendra 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do not think you was mean, He is immature, and you have a right to tell him not to come up to the college any more. Tell him you do not appreciate him telling your business, and for that reason, you think It best that you both go your separate ways, also tell your friends at the college, that you do not want him around you.
2006-10-06 12:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is a college girl still hanging around with high school boys? Isn't he a little young for you? I think it's time for you to meet friends in college now. He's a bit too immature.
2006-10-06 19:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look this guy is still in highschool here . he hasnt had that step up yet in his life [ hes still in the dark] . give him wide distance but stay friends cause i sense your attracted here . he will either grow up in future and join you or he will seperate from you all together in future . your in a more grown up mode now and hes still holding hands behind lockers lol . be patient and ignore his childish ways . your friends will see the kid in him and they will do same . truth is in future you may want an older attractant here and will you still feel same towards this guy then . i think you should put away childish things and just let this guy squrim in his own life but stay his friend just not as close . later you can get closer if he grows up .
2006-10-06 20:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by sigmond 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was using you to get to the other"friends" .It's good you let him know how you feel and let him go and do his thing without you. You will be better off without him in your life. As far as being mean..You should always stand up for how you feel about an issue, If others don't like your doing so...that's their problem,not yours.
2006-10-06 19:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have been a little harsh. He just is trying to make himself feel like a big man hanging out with the college crowd. Feel pity for him.
2006-10-06 19:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun,
Look at the situation objectivly. Would you be upset if someone did that to you? Do you feel as if you are not wanting to be friends with someone who is younger?
Try to look at the situation from someone elses point of view.
Good luck to you!
2006-10-06 19:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he had no respect for you to me.You should have give him the boot a long time ago!
IN Christ,
TJ57
2006-10-06 19:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by TJ 57 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, i think your smart to recognize that he is not really a friend and that you can't control people they are going to do what they want so it's best to cut your losses now. and find some grown up friends.
2006-10-06 19:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand but you should get rid of him if you don't like him cos he obviously thinks he's your boyfriend and he needs to get a life and realise you are TOO GOOD for him. lol
2006-10-06 19:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your in college....he's STILL in highschool.....think about it.
2006-10-06 19:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋