I was going to ask out this guy, and i really like him and my friends knew i liked him and one of of my friends got asked out by him, and she said yes, i am so pissed!!! but should i be cuz he clearly wanted her over me!:(
2006-10-06 12:32:16 · 17 answers · asked by Hippie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that's a hard one,many people have been in the same situation but I don't think it's worth losing a friend over.Remember guys come and go,but friends last forever.
2006-10-06 12:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by holliela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in w way you should be mad. For the fact that the girl said yes to the guy that she knew that you liked. Plus if she was a real friend she would not have did that to you knowing the way that you feel about him. But you should not be mad that he asked her out because it's not his fault he felt that way. But your girl way out of line for what she did. And don't her lame excuses that she is sure to give to either, because no matter what she says to you she was wrong and she knows it. And if I was you I would watch my back because if she did that who knows what else that she is going to do in the future.
2006-10-06 19:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by ghain39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help how you feel, but I would just grin and bear it. If she had gone and asked him out then yes, you would have good grounds for being mad at her, but as it is, put yourself in her shoes; would you have turned him down just cos you knew a friend fancied him? Probably not!
2006-10-06 20:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by pompeii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she knew that u liked she shouldnt be sayin yes that's not right that means she's not a really good friend . But everybody deserves a second chance if she says sorry dont be mad at her
2006-10-06 19:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see how you'd be mad. But hey don't let a guy ruin your friend ship. There will be more guys after all. She didn't keep it from you right? Just don't' try to guilt trip her. And even though your mad try to be happy for her.
2006-10-06 19:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by miss_lazze08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how that **** goes but no i dont guess you have a right to be mad but if you were already with this guy and she went out with him then yes you would have a right to be mad
2006-10-06 19:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by goodgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen u c her say u knew i liked him y did u do dat for,(and tell her how u feel) but dont let out all ur anger on her or she'll b mad at u
2006-10-06 19:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mz.Twix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be u have evry right to be! I would be POed too! she knew you lyked him, and a true friend wouldnt do that
2006-10-06 19:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely have the right. She knew you liked him, she should have said no.
2006-10-06 19:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by Pieces of Me ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All is fair in love and war... you have no reason to be pissed, he asked her out...
2006-10-06 19:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋