My GF is pressuring me for phsyical intimacy. So far I have managed to get out of these situations by changing the subject or spilling drinks on my pants and running home. I can't keep doing this forever.
I am not gay or against sex, it's just that I only agreed to go out with her because she is Large and pretty much threatened to beat me up if I said no. Well I have enjoyed hanging out with her but DO NOT want to take it to the next level.
What should I do?
2006-10-06 12:12:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Home & Garden ➔ Maintenance & Repairs
Sorry for posting this in the wrong section...my mistake.
2006-10-06 12:23:46 · update #1
Derwood, understand this. If you enjoy being with this girl but she doesn't make your kite fly, she's a friend and not a girl friend. If she's mature enough she will understand this. If she beats you up, she's not mature. If you let her beat you up, you are not mature either. Let her know that you will be happy to have fun together as friends, but that's it. Let it be her choice as you have made yours. Quality intimacy occurs between people that love each other and are excited by the possibilities of exploration of the other's mind and body. Be true to yourself and to the people you love.
2006-10-06 13:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by duaner87421 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is wrong on so many levels...male or female, no one should be pressured into going out with someone they're not attracted to. Tell her that it's not a "love connection" and that you're moving on. "It's not about you, it's about me"...which is true!
DO NOT have sex with this girl or you may find yourself in even more trouble than just not enjoying the sex. You'll enjoy it even less if she gets pregnant and you have a child with someone you don't love and are, apparently, afraid of.
Can't tell your age from your posting, but if you live with your parents, talk to them about the situation. They may be able to help you get out of it.
Ignore the unhelpful, critical answers. You can and should take care of yourself.
2006-10-06 19:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real? What kind of wuss goes out with a girl because he's afraid of her. Grow a backbone and stay away from her. Tell her to stop stalking you or you'll call the police.
And, yes, a guy can say no. He can say that he doesn't believe in premarital sex and no other explanation is needed. That way you don't have to worry about STD's, HIV, genital herpes, or any of the other serious diseases associated with sex.
2006-10-06 12:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE are you nuts go get some beer and doit later in life you will get old and horney and wish you did. Heck I would bring a friend, and then I would tell the story forever, REMEMBER that time we had that big........ YOU know what I'm talking about.... Take my advice grab a couple friends get bombed and doit I Guarantee she won't mind a few extra people at the party. Oh and SLAP THAT THANG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-06 13:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is an ill question and you need help. Get a dog and take it for walks. Make it a small one so it doesn't get the best of you and pull you around the block....................
2006-10-06 16:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. You shouldn't hide your feelings for her. Anyways, if she's your girlfriend and you don't want to get intimate with her, you have some serious issues.
2006-10-06 12:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you call her your girl friend?
What would a girl do in the same situation?
2006-10-06 16:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. You do not have to put out if you don't want to.
2006-10-06 12:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by redpantyluver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling her and stopping hanging out with her..
2006-10-06 12:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by limgrn_maria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take the beating
2006-10-06 12:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by rod h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋