2006-10-06 11:49:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Do you want to keep your marriage together ? If the answer is "yes" .. then forget about the guy. If you plan on a divorce, then keep him in mind if you like. Good Luck! :)
2006-10-06 11:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, you're a guy. You are married, and you are attracted to another guy. That means you are bisexual. How does your wife feel about that? You can't assume she will hate the idea before you even talk to her about it. I think it would make more sense to talk this all over than to try to sneak around and have a double life.
Of course, you do take the risk that she will hate the idea, and tell you that you have to choose between her and the guy. If she does, be sure to point out that if she's determined to have absolute monogamy, then she must live up to that, too. And, to be fair, she must be as accommodating as possible on other issues in order to make up for your voluntarily conforming to her wishes in this.
Many an odd marriage has thrived, but hardly any can thrive in lies and deceit.
2006-10-06 11:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was married I wouldn't do anything I take relationships seriously even just dateing. I think it is a sacred vow that you'll be with that person unless the guy i was married to gave me a reason to no longer want to be with him i.e-abuse besides that nothing. I'm only a teen and i think this way.
2006-10-06 11:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, you liked your husband first. Did you take vows? Remember them too. Anything outside of that is going to be more trouble than what it is worth no matter how much you like someone else. Stick to what you know is right in your heart. Marriage is not like candy where you give up your old standby for a newer tastier product.
2006-10-06 11:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Animaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was married I would not like another guy (OFF LIMITS)
2006-10-06 11:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by heavy6metal9babe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much i like the guy im married to, if i like the other guy more than i would have to say i would break up with my husband
2006-10-06 11:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by 2Cute2bTrue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you want to stay married or not.
2006-10-06 11:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Susan L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remember your wedding vows. I mean if you're in a bad relationship it might be different but if you're happy with the one you have why stray?
2006-10-06 12:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by Marenight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re-examine your marriage. Your feelings towards men will not go away, it's not a "phase," and you need to face your sexuality.
2006-10-06 11:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from your avatar, it shows you as a guy, so i am assuming that you are having gay tendencies, i would say tell your wife, cause it would send her to therapy for the rest of her life, please tell her, and then i think that you need to do some soul searching
2006-10-06 12:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋