When I first introduced my littlest sister to my husband (at the time we just started dating) everything seemed to go well, Until that fateful eveing. That first night, my sisters (I have another sister who gets along well with my husband as she and him respect eachother and not cross boarders when they interact and I feel no problem with him complimenting her and calling her beautiful in any way because it comes from a solid place as she is beautiful) my littlest sister (the one who took it upon herself to flirt with my husband and my other sisters boyfreind =( and him were "playing games" as he now refers to the incident, as it took him very long for him to admit! there were ALOT of small talks between them, her giving him the eye bat to appear mysterious and he fell for it..it dragged on through his encounters with her. He treats her the way he treats me and it feels awkward. When I brought it up to him when it first took place he called me insecure but the thing is I wasn't.
2006-10-06 10:28:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
He is out of order!!! You are not insecure, thats the oldest trick in the book, make it your fault. Lay the law down now, put your foot down, he is playing games, and disregarding your feelings, put your foot down, and hard.
2006-10-06 10:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting family dynamics.
Your sister seems to be in competition with you, or, at the very least, does not respect you enough to leave your man alone.
Since you didn't mention age, I assume all parties involved are adult.
Clean up your own back doorstep first, with a good family counselor to talk with you and your hubbie about this problem.
After a few sessions with the counselor, you both should understand what's at stake here and you should have some tools in which to fight off further advances from your sister.
The professional help you and your man get will allow you guys to tell sister that she best clean up her own act.
And as for your man - if he's not dumb as a box of rocks - the sessions should help him know by then what is and is not proper behavior...and he best support you 100% or hit the road.
Good luck.
2006-10-06 17:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong in the way you feel about this. I am a man and I think he is wrong. The bottom line is that if you love somebody, you shouldn't behave this ways with others, much less with your sister-in-law. If this makes you uncomfortable, he should respect your opinion here.
2006-10-06 17:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by lmnop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Jerry Jerry
Dumb that no good *** wipe
2006-10-06 17:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by mike_guy24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS SOUNDS LIKE A JERRY SPRINGER MOMENT!
2006-10-06 17:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋