Hey guys I have a question maybe you can give me your point of view/opinion. But ever since my husband and I got married every day when he comes home from work we cook together etc..... well he always asks me to take a shower with him and then before we go to bed he always kisses me and tells me that he has a surprise for me, and we end up making love, it has never failed, it has happened ever since we've been living together which has been about a year. Does this mean that things are great and that he truly loves me, or am i just thinking too much, since I was in another relationship before for about 5 years and the guys ended up breaking up with me because he said he never loved me, ever since Ive been so insecure, that doesnt mean I dont love my husband im just a little scared/afraid that this is too much of a good thing/or too good to be true. Please give me your opinion, I hope someone out there understands!! Thanks!!
2006-10-06 10:01:12 · 8 answers · asked by Juliet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth!! He married you for goodness sake!! Enjoy whatever time you have with him. The bottom line is we came into this world alone & will leave it alone. Everyone in between who can enrich our lives we should be thankful for and just enjoy. Worrying about it will only make you seem insecure and cause problems. Love him like you mean it and enjoy your life!
2006-10-06 10:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just scared. What you have to do is try to get your mind off the past which has nothing to do with him and look at your history with him. You finally found a good guy. Dont blow it by coming up with things in your head. Look at the way he treats you and go with it.
2006-10-06 17:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as too much of a good thing. Go with it and enjoy your life with him as long as you have him. Always live for today because life has a way of changing in a second. God bless you and your husband.
2006-10-06 17:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Purple Rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know what take for what it is worth....believe that girl you got a good thang,there aren't many left like that . to me this sounds like love and he finds it best at telling u he has a surprise for you. but it's not just about u do something nice for him surprise him keep the spark in your marriage do whatever it takes to keep your relationship going smooth.........don't question the inevitable just love it
2006-10-06 17:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You found Mr. Right. Cherish what you have and don't worry about what may or not not happen tomorrow, tomorrow will take care of itself.
2006-10-06 17:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, it means that things are great. You're over-thinking this.
2006-10-06 17:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Celt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just afraid that something bad will happen - relax!
2006-10-06 17:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should thank God to have that realationship with someone you love...
i think you deserve it all and just be happy let the things be the way they are..~~~~!!!
im happy for you!!
2006-10-06 17:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Just ME! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋