I checked in my boyfriends email for his CV and their disguised is an email from a somebody discussing something to the effect of " Needing help with a delicate topic". It sounded pretty friendly and
like they have gotten to know one another on a personal level. Yet still to date he has not mentioned anything. I now see this email address is listed on MSN messanger as a contact but hidden under privacy! What do u say something suspect or not.
2006-10-06 09:58:30 · 13 answers · asked by Domie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have many friends on the internet and friends is all they are, he may well have hidden it as he knew you may get jealous.(no offence mean't here) I find it easier in alot of ways(pending conversation) to converse with females, and yes i know my partner gets jealous.
2006-10-06 10:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know many things before jumping the gun - is it male or female? Relative? close friend? There could be a lot of reasons for the privacy! He may have been asked to keep the secret - do you have secrets from him? If you TRUST him there should not even be a question. But you must not trust him. Ask him. Is his e-mail off limits to you or does he know you check it? If he knows then there should not be a problem in asking.
2006-10-06 17:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Max A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your bf know you checked his mail? If not than you shouldn't have been doing it in the first place. It isn't your place to ask. Because this doesn't concern you, he might not think to bring it up.
Let me tell you from experience it doesn't pay to snoop around. Suddenly you question EVERYTHING he does and the little information you found will not be enough and your need to know will grow and grow. You should either confess that you saw this email and apologize or forget you saw it and let it go.
2006-10-06 17:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by pinklipstick_ab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when somethings bothering us...what should we do?? we should take care of it right...so we could clear our minds...i think the best thing that you should do at this point is to confront him, ask about this email address and why is it hidden under privacy....usually ppl don't hide things unless they have a really good reason too....but remember when you go to ask? please don't explode because it will not make the situation any better...it will only make it worse...so be ladylike about it ask him....if he denies that anything is going on...leave it at that because trust me... he will get caught if he's doing wrong.... so stay 2 steps ahead of him...if you still suspect something...act as if you don't because he'll get caught much quicker because he'll think you forgot about it...now if you bother him on a daily basis about it and start accusing him of things...then all your doing is just making him be more careful...because he's already aware of the fact that you suspect something...so it would be much harder for you to catch him...and he will start playing mind games with you...so just confront him about it one time...after he gives you an answer...just say...okay just wanted to know....just pretend you forgot about it...and if he's cheating trust me you will catch him...because he's going to get his own self caught....*good luck*
2006-10-06 17:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't read too much into it. Your bf probably talks and mails to people he doesn't mention either. Sometimes it's good to air out your thoughts to someone who isn't that close to you and can give an objective point of view on things.
2006-10-06 17:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are peeping in some one's privacy..ask yourself why are you jelous about email he has or some one's id on msn messenger.Never ever do that again.It's not a suspecious matter.
2006-10-06 18:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him, if there is no trust there is no relationship!
if you really suspect something then you will let it drive you mad until you eventually say something.
better to do it know rather than later.
goodluck
2006-10-06 17:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should ask him about it!
He will find out that you must have been snooping so be very careful how you approach the subject.
2006-10-06 17:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lorraine R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry , let it go , we all entitled to a little privacy
2006-10-06 17:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by sjhynes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily suspect, don't your friends ever ask your advice and expect you to keep it private
2006-10-06 17:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by meagain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋