Thanks for all of your input on my situation. Well I have 3 other children at home who are minors, and I court tells me not to have anything at all to do with them. I 'm getting so tired of waiting its been almost 4 years. Do I hold on, just get in trouble and call them.
Oh, I had a nervous breakdown, tried taking my life, and just left for a few days. My husband said he would help me but instead, threw my clothes out changed the locks and said your on your own.
2006-10-06 09:53:39 · 6 answers · asked by ms.mary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hmm talk to someone you trust, who is as well the friend of your husband and sees your kids.. that way they can tell your kids that you still love them and care about them..
just dont brake the law cuz then you might never see them at all!!!
im sorry that it happend that way and good luck!
2006-10-06 09:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Just ME! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you loose custody to the kdis because of drugs?? BIG reason why the courts and your husband doens't want you is because they feel you impose a threat to the kids. The kids aer obviously not safe with you and that AUTOMATICALLY gives the court a huge reason for you not to see them. Did they impose a restraining order on you?? I'm sure they did and if the court didn't i'm sure your husband will. Not to be mean or anything but- you need serious help. I ahve a family member who's going through the same situation and it's been like 8 years since he's fighting for custody of the kids. I'm not a lawyer or anything but- with you trying to kill yourself it makes it amlost IMPOSSIBLE for you to ever get custody of your kids. You will have to go throughTherapay, group homes for drug useres or whatever, it will take a while until you can even be around your kids. It's a HUGE deal when you do something crazy like try to kill yourself. I suggest you get help and be patient- you got a long road to recovery. It's the GOd's to honest truth but- you need to hear the reality if it. Be patient and do EVERYTHING the courts tell you to do so you can at least get to see your kids even if it's supervised visits which i'm sure you'll get.
2006-10-06 17:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try different ways to get in touch with them, but move slowly. Or keep an update on them from other family members that way if you can't get to them when they are ready and come to you, you can let them know you were always there. ..... keep trying though best of luck with this.
2006-10-06 17:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by Gemini20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about writing them. I Think baby steps is what you need.
You husband needs to be more supportive for this is the time that you need him the most
2006-10-06 16:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing what the law says is important but if you ask them and tell them that you really miss them and are worried. They might let you call them or see them with supervising.
God Bless You!!!!
2006-10-06 17:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have been denied all contact with your children you did a lot more than just what you are telling us
2006-10-06 17:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋