My boyfriend cheated on me, so I kicked him in the balls. As a result he lost a testicle!!! The kick was not that hard, I don’t know what happened! I feel so ashamed and guilty, I feel sick to my stomach. He will not press charges, but he does not want to see me again. He slept with a girl at a party because he was too drunk, he usually doesn’t drink. Will he ever forgive me? Anyone here had a similar experience? What can I do???
2006-10-06 09:33:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You are already feeling lousy and I don't want to add to it, but, honey, what you did was criminal. It's called assault and will he forgive you? I have no clue. If he does it will probably be a LONG time from now. What should you do? Stay away from him and his friends. . . ALL of them. You are not going to be welcome around them that's for sure (if they know what happened, that is). One thing is for sure. . . don't even THINK about it again. Sleeping around creates garbage and you feel into the garbage bin big time.
I would rethink my activities, my priorities, and my morals. I would set myself on the high road and live a life that you can be proud of. You can't change the past but you CAN change today and the future. You've learned a hard lesson. Just never put yourself in a position like that again.
2006-10-06 09:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the violent reaction may have been a bit extreme (in fact it did turn out to be extreme--he lost his testicle!). I can understand why he wouldn't want to see you anymore--certainly, you can see his position at least a little, no? I am sure you did not mean him permanent damage, but you did it, and you just kind of have to move on now.
Although, I would offer an apology to him for the injury (not for your the justification of your action--he messed up, too), but for the fact that he really did get significantly injured, which I am sure you did not intend.
2006-10-06 09:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by retorik75 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can go out with ME! And NOT kick me in the balls!!!
If i lost a testicle after a kick, i would never see you again either!~after all, you can only do that ONE MORE TIME!!!
2006-10-06 10:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by Andy D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move country, change your name, actually maybe set your own civilization up in the Antarctic. Can I join? I have a few things that have left me ladden with a crazily amount of guilt.
2006-10-06 10:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by saibhe79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn from your mistakes.Now i could guarantee you that he learn the hard way.You also need to control your anger because it could bring you some trouble.You should be glad that he is not pressing charges against you.Good luck.
2006-10-06 09:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Alexandria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope he sues you silly. Imagine if he had kicked you in the cooch if he found out you cheated on him and you lost one of your ovaries.
No excuse for such a tort.
2006-10-06 10:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You better hope your reputation as a ballbreaker doesn't get around or else you're never going to find another man.
2006-10-06 09:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by midwestbruin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry if he will forgive you. He cheated on you. I havent had a simalar experience, But i suggest not seeing him again. You deserve a better guy than that!
2006-10-06 09:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by lil_danca06 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
just forget about him. He cheated on you. Although, he didnt have any legal commitment to you because you werent married, so you cant complain THAT MUCH. But that doesnt give him the right to cheat.
You only need one testicle anyways. He doesnt want to see you? GOOD!!
2006-10-06 10:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by trainboy765 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I agree, he totally had that one coming. Don't feel guilty, it doesn't matter if he was drunk, he cheated on you. Getting drunk is no exuse, he's the one who was stupid enough to not control himself. I think you should apologize for his injury (yes, I know that sentence was already said and is not unoriginal now that I said it, bare with me here) and just move on. He obviously caused you tons of pain, and you've caused him tons, now you're even. :)
2006-10-06 09:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋