I have real problems in my life. I mean my parents are seperating (in the process of a divorce) I am w/ my dad and my only sister went w/ my mom. And dude it sux. My mom has cancer (just found out), my aunt ****** bitches @ me every day, my dad already wants to date all these chix, my friends are starting to hate me cuz I'm not exactly the person they know anymore, I hardly see my dad becuz he worx over time ALOT, I'm home alone half the time, my mom only comes to visit me when she wants something, my only sister isn't even there for me any more, and you've guessed it: I cut myself. Yeah some people say emo's DON'T have real problems, well guess what: some of us actually do. Does any of you agree?
2006-10-06 09:25:28 · 11 answers · asked by chyeah_underoath_rox 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
By the way IDK if I mentioned this, but I never considered myself emo until people started labeling me that way. And I am different, but so are u & everyone else.
2006-10-06 10:07:18 · update #1
Haha just found this : Emo is a slang term used to describe a range of fashion styles and attitudes somewhat affiliated with emo music and its related scenes. As an adjective, emo can describe a style of fashion or music; or a general state of unhappiness or melancholy (as in "to feel emo"). Emo is also used as a noun, often pejoratively, to identify a member of the "emo scene" or someone viewed as fitting the "emo" stereotype.
2006-10-06 10:12:08 · update #2
I disagree.
And you are going to get a ton of people saying 'waaah waaah waaah get over it", that kind of stuff, so to them, I say "watch it!"
And this "emo" of which you speak---lots of people have the same problems you have listed and they aren't "emo".
Sooooo that's why I'm disagreeing---EVERYONE has problems, whatever life choice you choose, there'll always be something that can be defined as "a problem".
Take care and good luck. Chill on your parents, your aunt sounds like she needs to step off, and hey, if your friends dont accept your new emo life, then they're not real friends, are they?
2006-10-06 09:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm emo/goth sure there's a change and I'm a mixture of each... My dad calls me emish, I'm looking ahead to that to seize on haha... Emos are pleasant the sort rocks at the side of the style in song and absolutely emo is created by means of difficult lives or pasts nevertheless, this doesn't suggest we're consistently unhappy and depressed we do smile!!
2016-08-29 06:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by boyington 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, there is a difference between being angry, being depressed, and being EMO. What is emo? Its a genera of music, and thats it. People often use the term "emo" as sombody who is emotionaly deprived, which is pretty much depressed. But there IS a difference. Being depressed is being sad. Being mad. Feeling down. Being emo is dressing and doing what emo bands do. Being influenced by them, following them. But its also hate. Hating yourself, your peers, etc. Being angry is being mad at something, someone, or yourself. You may feel like you want to harm/hurt/kill things your angrey at. When your angry, you make wrong choices, you make things seem worse than they are. I wouldn't call you or almost anybody EMO just because they cut themselfs. I would call this feeling you have ANGER
2006-10-06 09:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by steveo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emo is a stereotype. If you listen to Emo music and dress in "emo style" then you will get that lable. Just because you have problems does not mean that you are Emo.
2006-10-06 09:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God what is with the overuse of the word emo. I mean come on it's a genre of music for God's sake. I have a lot of emo friends and they all say they're unique and individual but if emo's are unique and individual then why label yourselves.
2006-10-06 10:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by *333Half-Evil* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a really tough life!!! I'm so sorry for all that's happened & that is happening to you.
Please try to get some help from someone stable. Is there a teacher you respect? What about the guidance counsellor in your school? Can you go to a local church and speak to the spiritual advisor?
My help comes from a benevolent Higher Power who accepts me no matter what. I believe that that Power accepts EVERYBODY no matter what. We just have to turn to it/him/her. I ask my Higher Power to direct my thinking and actions and to shine His healing light all around me to protect me from whatever needs protection.
I'll pray for you too. Good luck and G-d bless.!!!!
2006-10-06 09:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by concernedjean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are egocentric.. Emos are selfcentered.. Take me.. My parents hate each other and my dad shouts 24-7.. I feel like every girl i like just doesnt like me.. If you wish to cut yourself its called ATTENTION SEEKING...
I keep all my feelings barreled up inside which is probably worse that what you are doing.. but please.. BE LESS EGOCENTRIC AND THINK OF OTHER PEOPLE LITTLE GIRL!
jeesus.. your not the onlyone in this world.. there are 60+BILLION OF US!
2006-10-06 09:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by chechzrepublic69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl the only thing you need to know is if you cut yourself your emo have you heard that song Emo kid?
2006-10-06 09:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by rapfetta 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everyone has problems of some sort but it's up to the individual how they deal with them,are there no other family members you can turn to for help?
2006-10-06 09:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by grace k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u r not emo, u have sadness in ur life dats y u r upset
2006-10-06 09:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by Preeya 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋