2006-10-06 08:41:55 · 21 answers · asked by Zara 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hi Zara, first, i feel for you, but you should never give up and if you can, you should try to not think about it.
after checking that everything is fine between you and Ur partner, my only advice to you is really try stop thinking about it. stop trying so hard, stop thinking every time 'oh i hope i get pregnant this time'.
try stop thinking about 'getting pregnant'. Your body could be under too much pressure from your mind because the 'want' that you have is overwhelming.
relax.
just go about doing your normal routine. Do it whenever both of you feel like it. don't force yourselves to have sex just because it is that time of the month in your cycle.
it is always important to consider a baby being conceived is a real life miracle, i believe it can only happen during moments of true passion. and not the result of routine.
if everything is okay between the two of you, then i believe it will happen, its only natural. just give your mind a break, and stop trying so hard. it will help your body relax making it more likely to happen.
all the best!
2006-10-06 09:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There can be many reasons. If you are OK health-wise, is your partner? Stress can have an impact. Also little things it is better for the guy to wear boxers instead of y-fronts and so on to try to keep the testicle area as cool as possible to allow for optimal sperm production. I may be wrong but after 2 years it must almost be like a chore having sex but it may help to try taking pressure off and try different stuff, hopefully enjoy yourselves and with any luck 2 will become 3. There is also the fertility clinic option. I genuinly wish you and your partner the best of luck.
2006-10-06 17:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you and your partner been working with a fertility specialist? If everything checks out, sometimes it just happens when it happens. We had a similar problem, tried for a year, saw a specialist. He said go home and try for one more month and if nothing happens we'll start some tests. We went home and got pregnant that month.
There also seems to be some truth to relaxing and not trying so hard.
2006-10-06 15:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally as a physician, we consider infertility to be "labelled" after an a year of trying with no success. If you are having your period on a regular basis, then likely you are ovulating and may not be the problem. It is common for men to have low sperm counts or abnormal sperm with normal counts. You should see your gynecologist to be sure, but your partner should see his physician to have a semen analysis.
You should do this before seeing a fertility specialist. Most insurances do not cover fertility counselling and this can be VERY expensive.
2006-10-06 15:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by goyang333 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possibly your energy channel (sex chakra) is blocked. Probably not aware of what Im reffering to, but a very effective method to move out negative prana (energy) and move in the good prana. It's called Pranic Healing.
Famous hospital in Los Angeles is using this technique and it's on video at this website (pranichealing.com).
I have a good friend who had the same issue and she got pregnant quickly after removing her blockages.
Much success on your quest for creating more life.
Cheers
2006-10-06 16:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by HEAL ONESELF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through that problem too. We tried for 10 yrs to conceive, and finally the miracle came. We now have 2 children and another on the way. There is no explanation as to why it took so long. I guess God had other plans for us in the me-en time.
2006-10-06 16:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by skybluebabyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm in a similar situation, go and see your doctor. I have had some blood tests and the hormone produced when you ovulate is just over the level it needs to be to conceive. What the doctor has said is for my husband to go and have some tests now then if no avail we are to be referred to a clinic to help us. Good luck
2006-10-10 10:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by Allison M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister tried for twenty years. She was overjoyed to be pregnant at 40, a year and a half later she was pregnant again. Since then, they have used contraceptives.
You see it never rains but it pours!
2006-10-06 15:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Social Science Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try seeing a gyneacologist to see if something is wrong with your man. If not just keep trying, don't take any pills, put a hole in your condoms and enjoy life
2006-10-06 21:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Alex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wanting a baby, convince yourself of that life is better without a baby and you will instantly get pregnant as life is always screwing us all and giving us what we don´t want.
No seriously, good luck, keep trying.
2006-10-06 15:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by nobodysfool 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋