Hi. whenever my boyfriend and i are making love when he puts on his happy hat and starts again i get really really dry to a point it hurts.. why is that?
and how come i only get "in the mood" and iniciate it when we cant do it like before he leaves or when people are around or late at night when we are driving in his car? its really confusing to both of us. any advice on either of these questions would be very helpfull!!
2006-10-06 08:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yeah, "happy hats" tend to make me a bit dry too. Try some lube. Astroglide works really well. But also there are times of the month, like close to your period, when you're just going to be drier than normal. Doesn't matter how in the mood I am, or how much he works me up, if it's close to my period, I'm dry as a bone. Which is another thought--does he ever take the time to really turn you on, or does he just want to get to the action? Could be you want it when you can't have it simply b/c he's taking the time to tease and arouse you. Think about it. When you actually do it, is there lots of foreplay or it just wham-bam?
2006-10-06 09:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your really in the mood you should be wet. Maybe you eb nervous and just dont know it or soemthing is teh matter with your body because if you are aroused your are suppose to be wet. My advice is use lubricant!!! That way it hurts less. OH I AM A 13 YEAR OLD GIRL !!!
2006-10-06 15:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by ajia_cauthen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy.
1. Water-based Lubrication.
2. He should have the guts to dump whatever he "has to" do, and go with the flow, at least every once in a while.
3. Stop masturbating so you'll be ready for him whenever he feels like it.
2006-10-06 15:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more lubrication. You sex moods are common. In life we always try and pay attention to everything. You wait on the sex because it takes an indicator to set you off.
2006-10-06 15:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Clyde R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you are in the mood when you can't. I would just say, have some lubricant on hand in the bedroom so it's available whenever you need it.
2006-10-06 15:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by GirlUdontKnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be allergic to latex. Try a different kind of happy hat, or lube. The answer to the second question may lie in your first question.
2006-10-06 15:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋