Its so hard not to cry. maybe it's because he cheated on me but i love him so much. why would he do this to me he said he love me but how can he love me and hurt me at the same time. I cryed for 2hrs last night and just typeing this is making me cry
2006-10-06 08:17:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's okay. Time will eventually heal all your wounds. He didn't deserve you if he was willing to cheat on you. Trust me I've been there done that and I have a baby to prove it. My ex told me he loved me and even went as far as to ask me to marry him then I found out he was cheating on me. But this all took place after my little boy was born. Just take some time to yourself go out with your closest friends and just be girls. No matter what don't I repeat don't go back to a cheater!!!!!!!
2006-10-06 08:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hurting now BUT you did the right thing. Stay strong with your decision to end it because like you said...he could not love and hurt you at the same time. Time is the only healing agent for you and you will be fine. I wish you a speedy recovery, just remember HE cheated on you ALL guys are not dogs and don't make your next boyfriend pay for what this loser did to you. G'luck!
2006-10-06 15:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can tell a lie. No one would deliberately hurt someone they love and cheating on someone is definately deliberately hurting them. Cry all you want for a day or two but after that, get over it. Agirl should never cry for a guy because when a guy makes u cry, he's not worth it. Face facts that u fell for a not very nice guy... hang out with friends, gossip, hang out and involve yourself with life... you'll live... Go ahead and pray..God is always listening. Life is full of challenges and problems. We have to overcome them, get over them and learn them. God wouldnt challenge ppl who are not capable. Life must go on and broken hearts will heal. try talking about it to a friend who really cares. get it out of your system but after that.... dont look back. it hurts as long as allow it and cuts as deep as you let it....
2006-10-06 15:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by SaM19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve better. my ex would cheat on me and i would cry for days and then take him back over and over again. let him go cause if he did it once...he'll do it again. dont let him see you are sad. stay away from him for awhile. if it was meant to be then he will change for good and come back some day. but whatever you do...live life to its fullest even if its without him. Yu say you asked God to help you...well, God never fails...so He's there and He will be with you as long as you want. God wants better for you and who knows? maybe God will bring "the guy" that He wants for you. You'll be in my prayers...k? find something to do other than hide from the world. go out and have fun...in a clean and decent manner. sometimes we dont understand why things happen but if you trust in God....He knows what he is doing in your life....ok.ok. this is becoming a long book. CHEER UP!!!
2006-10-06 15:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Becky S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he cheated on you then he could of been drunk or something. People can love you and hurt you at the same time. It happened to me when i was very young. If you still love him then you have to tell him that. I know it is hard but you must if you ever want to be with him again.
2006-10-06 15:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Roxy* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, I've been there- but only time can stop the crying- allow yourself to cry now so you do not have to cry later. Just remember everything happens for a reason- maybe God took him out of your life because he has some one special waiting for you- your ex was in his way. Remember it is not you it's him
2006-10-06 15:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Nyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time, but even with time, its still hard. i fell in love with a man last year and 7 months later he had to move out of state and i havent heard from him since. my heart is broken. every song i hear i break down crying. hes been gone 9 &1/2 months and its still hard.every time i close my eyes i see his face. every time the phone rings i run to it hoping its him, but its never him.
love can hurt. time, friends & family are the only thing keeping me strong, until its night and im alone. thats when its hard. just know it's ok to still cry, u cared for him. love is unpredictable
2006-10-06 15:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by leekee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there and find something to occupy your time. Hang out with friends, go to a movie or spend time with your family. Break ups are hard, but time will heal your heart. Some guys are just pigs. There are some guys out there that are great. Just hang in there.
2006-10-06 15:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by ABob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me. Asking God for help is a wonderful place to start. You will be able to get through this with help from friends and help from God. This happened to my daughter and she was over it soon because she chose not to drag out the issues out and moved on.
2006-10-06 15:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by pinkzebra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with a guy that i liked to and cryed too, but you just have to lean that there are bigger and better people in this world that will accept you for who you are.
2006-10-06 15:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by KaTaria B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋