Hi,
I have a problem (not a big problem). In my surrounding, there are 4 women which I get upset off in their company. (They are all dominant women). 2 of them never did something to me, their a bit weird or dumb, but 2 others added insult to me. If I play tennis against them I feel so upset, I often start to cry (while they aren't mean to me that moment) but they emit (?) a sphere around them which I can't deal with. I can't concentrate myself any longer and feel myself very very worse.
Do more lesbians have this problem with other women? Of course, I almost never see these women, but if I met them, I can't act normal (and no, I absolutely don't feel attracted by them)
2006-10-06 08:14:11 · 10 answers · asked by frenzie-ann 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I never hang around with them, but one was a classmate and 3 of them I have to play tennis against during a competition. (they are a lot older). But if I have to face them, they really have a big influence at the trust in myself. I don't feel good at those horrible moments.
2006-10-06 08:22:15 · update #1
and yeh, I am a lesbian, and the Q is if more lesbians have this problem also
and sometimes I have to play a game against them, (just during a tournament) but I try to avoid these women.
2006-10-06 08:23:59 · update #2
we are our own worse enemies... lets look at the media for example: boob jobs; face lifts, to name but a few... anyway, my point is that girls are naturally bitchy with each other- its sad i know, but a fact. Dont let these girls see they are affecting you, that is the worse thing you can do. also, stand your ground- dont let these women chase you away...when will you stop running?
keep your chin up, and remember: these girls have no respect for you, so you have to show them your self worth... i wish you all the best. goodluck
2006-10-06 09:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think in general women can be harder to get along with but I myself have no problems with being friends with or working with other women. I am not sure how old you are but you sound young, don't worry as you get older you should be able to handle them better.
2006-10-06 16:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Indiana Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey these are the simple things that will make you strong in life.... You need to stop getting emotional first off.. Change it to feeling sorry for them... Think of them in a different way, like how sad it must be to be them... I wonder what there parents are like that made them this way..... You need to change your frame of thinking..... You need to hold your head up high.... Start being extra nice to them,, they are a charity case,, If they say something mean again remember, they are sad, sad people.
2006-10-06 15:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by mylife 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not a lesbian, but WOMEN can be horrid to other women. I sometimes wonder if its a natural phenominon.
Why do you hang around these people who seemingly make you feel bad about yourself? Can you find no other lesbian friends? If not, too bad. Its better to be around us breeders than with people who widdle away your selfesteem and confidence.
2006-10-06 15:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have known moments at my place of work when the atmosphere could be cut with a knife. Not always directed at myself or my partner though it has happened. Gwenneth was my support and we could usually put them down.
Since Gwen's death her family have been particularly horrid but I have found that like my names sake I have developed thorns. My best defense was "FORGIVENESS". .
I am sorry I cannot help you directly but I would offer such strength as I possess to help you.
With best wishes, Rose P.
2006-10-06 19:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by rose p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not lez, but as a human being, I just gotta ask why you would purposely do something (tennis) with them knowing how they make you feel? And, yes, you can act normal--be yourself! If they don't like it, their loss!
WAIT!! You HAVE TO play a game with them? Free country still, right? Change your scenery!
2006-10-06 15:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by pocket68rocket 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your question is not very clear, but I'll attempt to answer anyway.
I can say that I do NOT have isolation problems around other women.
2006-10-06 15:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl, ditch the bi**hes!!!!
nobody is worth the torture, you don't need no one like that being around u change the players of the game and don't let them get to you!
2006-10-06 16:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure I understand your question clearly?Are you saying you are a lesbian?but not attracted to any of them?
2006-10-06 15:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ignore them
2006-10-06 16:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by evening_dewpoint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋