My ex-mistress has picture of me in compromising positions. Help?

Question

I knew she had the pictures, but I never thought she'd threaten to put them on the internet. This would ruin my marriage, and people would see me differently. I'm not ashamed of them, but they were supposed to be private. I swore I would never let others see the pictures I took of her. She's mad because I won't get back together with her.

I wouldn't post her pics. I'm still in love with her. I just know that she's not the right one for me.

My wife cheated on me years before I had my first affair. She has nothing to complain about if she finds out about this.

I'm not feeling much love in here. Most of you want to condemn me for the affair, but I need immediate help. She's going to post the pictures in an hour if I don't do something.

Answer 1

Uhm yeah. And you saw this going down differently how?

Seriously, there are about 240k movies that covers this subject. When you stray, you are supposed stray in a way that it DOESn't come back to haunt you...you know, one or two trists with random females your mate will never ever meet. Tropical isles with limited communication and transportation are ideal settings.

Here are the options as I see them:

- do nothing, let your wife find out

- get back with the tramp, risk her getting more dirt on you, and thus being that much further in her grasp

- maybe she accidently dies and your problem goes away? although that's not really an "option" per se, I mean, how can you make someone have an accident. Maybe if you pray enough, God will see it your way and strike her down for you?

Answer 2

Man up and tell your wife about the affair. It's nothing worst than when a spouse has to hear about an affair thru someone other than the guilty spouse.

You must tell her about the affair, ( and the potential for her naked husband *** to be plastered all over the net) and be prepared to deal with her reaction...whatever that may be. What grieves me is that your still in love w/your whore. Which further says you haven't mended whatever's wrong with your marriage. Which means you'll probably cheat again, and be just as careless as you were w/this whore who you allowed to take incriminating pictures of you. Why would you be so foolish? It's bad enough you cheated, then you needed visuals to go along with it! What else did you do, screw the whore w/out protection......maybe your wife needs an HIV/AIDS test too.....

Answer 3

Brace yourself son. Your ride is over.
You can:
1) do what she wants, see how long she bleeds you, or
2) tell your wife you were unfaithful and take the consequences like a man .
You made your bed son, time to lie in it. I hope you learn your lesson. Look in your wife's face when you are telling her what you've done and ask yourself if you want to put another woman thru that kind of pain again. Better yet, think about how you would feel if you loved and trusted a woman and found out she was cheating on you.
I've been cheated on. I know how it feels. Men like you make me sick.

Answer 4

DON'T YOU KNOW THAT TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE ONE RIGHT? JUST BECAUSE YOUR WIFE CHEATED ON YOU "WAY BEFORE YOU DID" DOESN'T GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO CHEAT TOO. YOU MESSED UP BIG TIME AND EVEN MORE WHEN YOU SAID THAT YOU ARE, "STILL IN LOVE WITH YOUR MISTRESS" OH PLEASE, IF YOU WERE IN LOVE WITH HER (MISTRESS) YOU WOULD LEAVE YOUR "CHEATING" WIFE AND BE WITH THE "TRAMP" YOU ARE CHEATING WITH. I DON'T THINK ANYONE THAT INTERFERS WITH A MARRIAGE SHOULD BE SHOWN ANY KIND OF RESPECT. DID YOU JUST SAY I DO AND NOT LISTEN TO YOUR VOW'S? IT SAYS, WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER LET NO ONE PUT US UNDER.....TRANSLATION FOR YOU, GOD JOINED YOU TOGETHER TO BE ONE, NOT THREE....I HOPE SHE DOES POST THOSE PICTURES AND IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN, I HOPE THEY SEE WHAT A LIAR, CHEATING, DESRESPECTUL FATHER THEY HAVE. HAPPY DIVORCE.

Answer 5

If this is a true question , you better confess to your wife and fast. Ex mistresses are crazy because who but a psycho would be with a married man in the first place?

Answer 6

The turth will come out sooner or later. Why are you having an affair in the first place. You can deny it all you want but your wife, firends, family are eventually going to find out. Just be honest with your wife and tell her......... It will be worst if she finds out another way. So tell her the turth!!!

Answer 7

Listen to me you are playing with FIRE..ex bitchtress is out for BLOOD ....you had an affair because your wife had one what does that tell is the word STUPID .... you have a child a wife a nosey mother in law and a PYCHO EX.......was it worth it ???? CLEAN UP YOUR ACT AND SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE...DO NOW ....

Answer 8

That really sucks! But what goes around comes around. You shouldnt have had an affair to begin with and you wouldnt be in this situation.

Answer 9

You think that's bad????
In my old hometowm, all these managers and big shots at the largest company slept with one secretary.
They fired her.
So guess what she did? Go on, guess....
She photocopied her vagina while performing a split on a copier machine, and sent the important fax to all the big shots' wives.....
People like you who cheat deserve to go to hell.....
I hope your mistress puts the photos on the front page of international newspapers. Suffer.....

Answer 10

Serves you right! What made you think it was okay to cheat anyway? I have no respect for people like you! I hope she posts them and I hope your wife sees them. Are you planning to cheat again? If you're smart, you'll confess everything to your wife now!