I talked to my friend about the situation and it was not resolved. So I have been trying to put her out of my life but she sends me hurtful things in the mail and in emails. I would like to put her behind me and not cry about it. How can a person let go and move on and meet new people when your friends where friends with her too?
2006-10-06 07:41:18 · 7 answers · asked by Dori 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when that happened to me, i found a new bestfriend. it was someone i didnt really like when i was hanging out with the old loser friend. we start to hangout alot and got realllly close, shes changed me so much but inthe best way possible. i advise you to ignore the hurtfull friend as much as possible, i know how hard it is it took me half a year, b ut youll get there. and find someone new.
2006-10-06 08:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am kind of going through a similiar situaion. I have had a best friend for like 20 years and she got alll religiously fanatical on me and married a dude from her church so she treats me like I am not worthy anymore. Its easy for me to move on (even from a 20 year relationship) because she continuoulsy does sh*t that pisses me off which makes me want less and less to do with her. Today she been texting me her religiious babble and I let her have IT big time. I do not recognize her as the friend I had for 20 years so getting over her is easy. SHE changed - NOT me. Take your ex-friends hurtful ways and use it as a method to get over her. I was never one to dwell in the past so I just remember her the way she use to be and keep on moving with my life. Hopefully she knows that she can and will NEVER be in my life the way she use to be again. You will be fine and its okay to cry..JUST to get it out of your system. THen dust yourself off and move on hon. Gluck!
2006-10-06 07:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Moment for You
There are angels on earth
and I know you’re one.
Like an angel,
you watch over special ones.
Keeping them safe from harm,
and making sure they’re alright.
Lifting them up,
and restoring hope in their life.
Guiding them toward happiness,
no one ever needs to feel alone.
Because you’re loving presence is never far,
and your wings are never known.
But their constant comfort is felt every day,
So, if you ever wonder, you do make a difference in everyway.
By: Kenny P. AKA cobra
2006-10-06 07:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her and don;t even bother reading the letters or email. go on and make new friends. there are plenty of other people in the world that you don't need to be emotionally trampled by a so called friend.
when she sees it doesn't bother you any more - she will stop
2006-10-06 07:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this just happened to me and my friend of 17 years..I didnt talk to her for about 2weeks.Then she took my daughter off her friends list on myspace. I contacted her by email and told her that wasnt right. She said that she thought my daughter had taken her off hers..I told her that i never once told my daughter to take her off her friends list that she was allowed to talk to her because my daughter is old enough to know if she wants to talk to her or not.So my friend and i talked and we finally resolved things.I just told her that i wouldnt talk to her about that part of my life to her..She said ok..I just believe friends should be able to talk about anything..But i guess i have to understand her point to or at least compromise alittle with her..I have other friends i can talk to about that part of my life..So I just let it go and dont talk to her about it anymore..So then we dont argue now..
2006-10-06 07:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by candyapplebabe32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this must be tough. I'd tell the girl to shut the fu*k up.
2006-10-06 07:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get mad....
just get even.
2006-10-06 07:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by Squall_22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋