Im only 23.... Is there anything I can do or take??? Very very concerned any birth control that can help? I love him very much but sometimes i just feel like UGH! get off me!!
2006-10-06 07:37:57 · 9 answers · asked by nynubianqt 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
when i was 23 i was going through post pardom depression from having my baby, my drive was like 0! i thought i'd never want sex again, then i started craving it again recently after my 25 b day, maybe youre not at your prime yet!if you have a lot on your mind it may effect it too, or if your man aint doin it right will effect it too, me n mines fought over it when i told him how to do it but then he learned after my naggin n explainin and voula magic me n mines been 2gether for 6 yrs so we've had time to practice have patience life is not all about sex that will come natually, learn to love yo man and who he is to figure out if he is the one.
2006-10-06 07:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend more time getting turned on, it won't be frequent, but figure out what you like. There has to be something, oral, kissing, whatever. Also, some people just have really low blood flow there, try getting a toy. I watch Dr. Laura Berman, and thats her solution for patients with that problem. There are a ton of toys that get help you have more fun in the bedroom (or somewhere else). Experiment and have fun!
2006-10-06 07:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Belly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank you for all the main important factors, it truly facilitates in providing you with a extra suitable answer. permit's start up with what you have given us. i will do a rapid checklist: he's in his sexual top, so he could have an interest - a minimum of extra often than an older guy. No drugs, alcohol or drugs, so as that regulations out a ton of skill problems. college and paintings could be particularly stressful and the reality that he's juggling college and paintings concurrently could be onerous. it truly is quite real if he's a conscientious worker and a competent pupil. So one component of evaluate is to speak with him approximately his paintings and school and see if there is something he can do to diminish his stress approximately it. yet you provide an particularly telling assertion once you're saying that if "one component is going incorrect, he loses the erection." i'm no longer a qualified therapist, yet I also have a buddy who suffers from severe overall performance stress, and it even impacts his intercourse existence. That sentence on my own tells me that on the least you may look up a qualified scientific expert - like a sexologist - to talk how he's feeling in the time of intercourse and what he's questioning approximately. here is why I recommend that. in many wholesome sexual relationships, intercourse is so relaxing that no longer something "is going incorrect." We tried that and it wasn't so relaxing, so we moved directly to something extra relaxing. And the belief of "incorrect" truly does not exist. issues paintings, or they do no longer, yet the two way we could have a blast and truly savour this. A sexologist, or therapist, or psychiatrist can help him to paintings by using what it is it is bugging him. it could have been a bad previous journey, indicators he thinks you're giving, non secular guilt, or any form of things. A experienced expert can %. up on those issues rapidly. And in case you think of roughly it, you're speaking approximately making plans a relatives, so isn't this an investment nicely worth making formerly a mountain of hardships and heartbreaks could probably ensue? How lots time and power is the two considered one of your happiness nicely worth? finally, I constantly propose checking with a doctor. it can be a scientific subject it is giving him complication. perhaps it humiliates him to confess he has a concern. a doctor can help with actual subject concerns. I desire you success and desire this facilitates.
2016-10-15 22:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you won't beleive it, dear. i'm only 15 and i have the same problem. i never dreamed (even) that there will be something that will share the same problem with me. when i try to do it i fail because i feel sick in that moment. the best advice for me and for you is to be very superficial, and not concentrate so much on what we gona do. (beleive it works! try it! but in that moment you've got to feel to that you love him). it's a little complicated but give it a shot. iti is not so difficult to be superficial and love in the same time...
2006-10-06 07:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with your sex drive, that is the way you are....if he cannot accept that and has to cheat on then so be it.
Just be yourself and dont change for anyone.
2006-10-06 07:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES , TRYING THE FOLLOWING
GO TO YOUR LOCAL SHOPPING MALL
GO NEAREST SHOE STORE AND BUY SHOES
THAT SHOULD TAKE CARE OF YOUR PROBLEM
2006-10-06 08:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sucks for your man, hope he doesnt end up cheating on you. just being honest..
2006-10-06 07:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by snoogans 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your probably not that actracted to him, i have that problem with my girl
2006-10-06 07:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by john 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its normal
2006-10-06 07:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by amberharris20022000 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋