my man's mom passed away 4 days ago, he has been very depressed. we haven't had sex like in a week, when do u think it would be approite to approach him sexually. thanks.
2006-10-06 07:18:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when he needs it
2006-10-06 07:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by bobby h 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion, I would be very sensitive of his needs but would use that as an opportunity to push up on him and get him sexually excited. Do really nice things for him like cook his favorite meal or take him out to his favorite place. Use that time to talk to him and get him to speak out if possible after dinner go out to dance or have a drink. You have to make it so he won't want to decline the pleasure you can bring. Make it all about him for an evening. I imagine a lot is going on with family if she just passed but you would want to help get his mind away from the pain so add some fun to take his mind away for a second. The weekend is a nice way to start fresh adn say let's get out this has been a rough week. Good luck
2006-10-06 14:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Dominique L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of the death of his mom he could be going through a depression stage which causes lack of sexual desire. Hold him and confort him through this trying time. Let him know tha you care and give him support and love first. He will come around. It might take a while. Talk to him gently about the subject if it starts to linger on.
2006-10-06 14:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For oral pleasure, you should approach the man right now. Or, as soon as he walks in the door. To return to your normal sex life, it depends on his relationship with his mom, and how he feels. After you satisfy him orally, then ask him about it. Talk openly, without accusations, and if he's a man, he'll probably shag the hell out of you right away.
2006-10-06 14:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by Damien104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never again until you are married. Jesus said that sex outside of marriage is sin and it was only intended for people who have been married to each other. I also suggest that you read I Corinthians chapter 13, the "Love Chapter", that defines what true love is and isn't. Follow it and you won't go wrong. Sex is to be the expression of true love in marriage and you are using it as something else. Also if love dies, it wasn't love in the first place.
2006-10-06 14:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait two weeks to let him kinda get back into the swing of things. I would be there for him and if he initiates it, cool. But he is going through a grieving stage right now.
2006-10-06 14:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and let him come to you because if you come on to strong he'll think all your in it for is sex, just talk with him and make sure that your in this for the right reasons! Good Luck~
2006-10-06 14:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by S.D.V. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until he approaches you. He may not be ready for that right now. Be patient. Good Luck!
2006-10-06 14:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him, and not just in the sexual way. He'll come around soon enough.
2006-10-06 14:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by fishing66833 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just lost his mother and all you can think about is sex, you inconsiderate,heartless,selfish Witch, I hope he reads your question and leaves your ***
2006-10-06 14:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by CareBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should breakup. This man has lost his mom and all you are concerned with is your booty call? Sad.
2006-10-06 14:20:54 · answer #11 · answered by Your Best Fiend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋