Around six to seven months ago I had feelings for this friend of mine, until he told me he wanted to take a friendship into another relationship with another girl, I thought all this time when he was leading me on and playing with my heart, that he actually liked me, and wanted to take our friend ship to the next level, yea boy was I wrong! LOL anyways from the day he told me this I started to feel heart broken at first and then that heartbroken heart started to feel resentful toward him, and all I can think about is getting back at him, but the more I thought it though the more I started to hate me for believing that I was liked by him. The friendship started getting edgy and more difficult as each day’s goes by;there has been a time when I won’t dare talk to him because fear that if I say something wrong, he will turn a round and use it against me.SO my question to you is What should I do? Should I confess everything to him, or just let it go and pretend to put a smile on my face?
2006-10-06 07:18:44 · 5 answers · asked by sassy_and_daring 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it is always difficult when someone you have feelings for confesses to you that they like someone else. do you know this other girl? how are you around her? I believe the best thing to do would be to get him alone and tell him what your feeling. dont think of it as being weak or he wont understand. and be patient us guys can be a little insensative without meaning to be. and listen to what he says instead of what you want to hear. most times a friendship can endure, even become stronger, by talking. and who knows he may even think differently of you but dont expect it.
2006-10-06 07:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it was me i would arrange to meet him for a drink or something and then i would just let it all spill out because the sooner you get it off your chest the better.at least when you tell him how you feel you,ll get his reaction and know if he really had feeling for you.good luck
2006-10-06 07:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and let him know how you feel. but also if he doesn't feel the same, let him know you don't want your friendship ruined by what you said
2006-10-06 07:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by Gemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him the truth on how you really feel
2006-10-06 07:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him u'll feel better
2006-10-06 07:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋