okay here is the deal i was dating this Nic for 5yrs. and things ended pretty bad.well i hooked up with another guy that didnt last either but i had gotten preg. by this guy. Nic knew i was preg and wanted me to stay with him for a while so i did and i was about 3 weeks before my due date and he told me that i needed to move back to my moms. so i did anyway now that the baby is here he not sure if he still wants me. he says he loves me then he doesnt love me so is it worth the wait if he keeps lying to me about us getting back together
2006-10-06 06:29:45 · 18 answers · asked by cmg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you are completely justified in asking him what the deal is. If he can't give you a straight answer, move on! You have a baby to focus on, and you don't need a relationship that's on again off again. If he truly loves you and wants to be with you, he'll tell you that... and he won't play games.
2006-10-06 06:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dubs82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a baby now which means you can't play games with your life. You have to get serious and stop worrying about some fool playing with your heart and worry about that baby and yourself! I know it's hard being on your own but you got pregnant with another guys baby i'm sure that bothers this Nic guy. Don't worry about it and move on one day you'll meet the guy that's perfect for you and your baby. If this guys lying to you all the time do you really want him anyway? You should have seen how he was when he told you to move out 3 weeks before your due date. If he really loves you he'll prove it in the mien time don't wait around for him.
2006-10-06 13:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. tell him u r not gonna be waiting around forever and he wont either. u know u have to think about the fact that u had a baby with a hook up and not with a guy that u loved and were with for 5 years and probably thats whats makin me him back out
2006-10-06 13:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by SweetHeart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If he wanted to be with you truly, he would have married you already. I did not mean to sound harsh..but you need to do what would be in the best interest of YOUR child. Who needs a man who is in and out of your life whenever HE feels like it. Dont waste your time. Life is way too short. I wish you luck and love:)
2006-10-06 13:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by Naomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he isnt really gonna want to raise the other guys kid and put up with that stuff. the thing you have to do is get the child support payments coming in off his paychecks, the courts and state will take their cut, but its better than nothing. Then get a job and get back on your own feet and prove that you are worthy of a relationship, then men will come who want one.
2006-10-06 13:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he says he loves me then he doesnt love me so is it worth the wait if he keeps lying to me about us getting back together"
He can't get back together with you cuz you cheated on him and got yourself pregnant..forget about it,(and now you want back? if the guy takes you back he would be a total looser with low self respect, and he knows that, that's why he can't take you back) your fault here
p.s. don't listen to what women say, read answers from men
2006-10-06 13:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy likes you, but doesnt want to be a father right now. move on and focus on your child, God will help you find a good man who understands you two are now a package deal and a sweeter one because of it, good luck honey
2006-10-06 13:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Its not worth the wait!! If he really loved you he would not have kicked you out the house and he would be there for you and your baby!! Screw him. He doesnt love you at all and if he wanted you he would be with you right now spending time with you and your baby!
2006-10-06 13:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't wait for him. Take care of your baby, and leave him behind. For a five-year relationship, this guy does not seem supportive at all. Move on sweetie!
2006-10-06 13:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_lil_butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he loved you then he wouldn't be putting you through this so if he cant just give you a straight answer then you should just move even though it's hard
2006-10-06 13:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Twilight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋