Today is my wedding day and following is our honeymoon...i know this sounds sooo gross...but i dont know what to do...i have an overactive oil gland down...stairs(as the dr put it)...and sometimes i get kinda like white heads..sorta well...sometimes maybe once every 6 months one will swell up like a boil and it hurts so bad...and if we have sex it turns green until it pops....what am i supposed to do??? i have one and ton ight supposed to be my honeymoon and if im focusing on that dang bump im going to freak!!!!! please help!
2006-10-06 06:25:13 · 17 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
he knows ive told him about them before...but he also went with me when the dr told me what they were so it doesnt bother him..it just makes it uncomfy...
2006-10-06 06:29:10 · update #1
i know it was stupid...i didnt notice i even had it til last night...and by then...it was proably too late anyways...its not THAT gross but it is pretty dang gross....lol
2006-10-06 06:31:46 · update #2
be very careful when you wipe after using the restroom... make sure not to run your toilet paper over this area unless its in an "unavoidable" spot ... at all costs, keep fecal matter (sweat, too) off this area...it is the bacteria that gets into the follicle, causing it to get infected, resulting in a boil.
try using johnsons cornstarch baby powder on that spot , it might improve overacting gland symptoms too
2006-10-06 06:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by kimandchris2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getr some pgisohex and use it dailky as part of your wash routine. That'll keep the staphylococcus levels down on your skin. (60% of peo;e have Staph. on their skin. Use a mild detergent or surfactant regualrly to keep the skin oils down in the region of these white heads. For your special evening, get a brown cosmetic marker (eye shadow?) and cover the spot & it becomes a "beauty spot".
Good luck and have fun. If hubby finds out and has a fit, consider an annulment, the guy should have a sense of humor and should underestand if and when you level with him. Not all crural problems are venereal disease, or s.t.d.'s.
Good luck and have fun.
Doc. Dan.
2006-10-06 13:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol okay here is a thought, put a bandaid on it and say "I have been so nervous, about this night i got a pimple down ya know There" that should allow him to enjoy and ignore the bandaid cause it is explained before the part other than that i have found it interesting to help groom my partners. maybe he will enjoy mutually searching each others bodys for fun and grooming puposes. Oh and don't worry love doesn't end over a bump or scratch
2006-10-06 13:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by mousehth72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put some neosporin on it. people give too much importance to a honeymoon night. you have a lifetime to have sex (if you're the kind that believes marriage is supposed to be forever). just enjoy being married and being with the one you love. don't freak out about a boil. like i said, put neosporin on it and see a doctor once you're back from your honeymoon. it might be the way you're shaving or you may have some infection that needs oral antibiotics for it to completely go away.
good luck today! and forever.
2006-10-06 13:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by Gumnaam1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CALM DOWN, first of all everyone knows that on a special day, anything that can go wrong with your body, will go wrong...your hormones are in a tango....Just a suggestion, but does wearing a pad or putting goldbond medicated power/cream on it help? Maybe you shouldn't wear anything under your dress to try and air out that area before the big night,,,,,Good luck sorry if this wasn't helpful and Congratulations!!!!
2006-10-06 13:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by cdb774 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you have exactly, but there is more to the honeymoon than the sex. Your new husband now shares your problems so be open with him. Let him know why your not having sex and hopefully he cares more about you then the bump.Congratulations anyway....
PS Its not THAT gross
2006-10-06 13:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can either place a raw piece of bacon, or a potato on it... this will draw all the "puss" to a head, and you can pop it easy that way. I feel your pain girlfriend, I get them all the time. I guess its my Italian blood!!!
2006-10-06 13:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by ItalianPrincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right that is kinda gross and I don't know what to tell you other than to pop it. Why are you getting married on a Friday??
2006-10-06 16:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should ask a doctor about it. Are you sure you've had proper testing done to see about yourself. Sometimes doctoring ourselves does not work seek professional help.
2006-10-06 13:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by robin t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how come u didnt do anything about this before??? last minutes notice is not good. nothing u can do now, but have careful sex. that will suck on your honeymoon though. u dont wanna dissapoint him
2006-10-06 13:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋