So I dated this single mom with three kids, I ended up going first base with her on the first date, and a home run if i had not told her I want to go slow.... Should I keep seeing her or is she getting desperate? im in my early 20's and so is she.
2006-10-06 06:24:34 · 14 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd be really careful, 3 kids is not easy to deal with especially at a young age. They are also quite expensive and I wouldn't want her to use you for anything. On the other hand she may just be in need of some attention and if you are cool with giving her that without a commitment (make sure she knows that) then its all good.
2006-10-06 06:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You slept with a woman in her early twenties who already has three kids? On the first date? What is wrong with you? Do you want to have a child?
Let me back up:
1. Never, ever have sex with someone on the first, second or even third date. If you like her, respect the both of you by getting to know her before you make that move.
2. Respect yourself by not being such a horn dog and giving it up so easily, and question the priorities of anyone that so willing to hand it over so soon.
3. Do you want to get serious about this woman? If not, leave her alone.
4. You know that there are consequences to every action. If you can't accept the possibility of an STD, pregnancy, find out that she's psycho, then just keep your pants up.
It's OK NOT to have sex with someone until you get to know them. It's alright to be discriminating in choosing the women you go out with. I'm not putting this woman down, but I am saying that you need to use your brain and rely less on your little head.
2006-10-06 06:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be a little unsure of herself being so young with children. Most guys don't hang around long if they think they are liable to inherit a ready-made family. So there may be some desperation on her part. I think one way of telling, is whether or not her kids are from the same father. If they are, it suggests that she has come out of a long term relationship with a man, & is now uneasy about dating again. If they aren't, well I don't mean to be cruel, but that might indicate that she's a sl*t.
2006-10-06 06:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think carefully, she has 3 kids, do you want any of your own, if with her that makes 4 and so on. your young, do you want to commit to a family, bring up 3 kids? if so then go for it, but if your in doubt, don't get involved to deeply, think of the kids, if you cant cope, the kids will suffer as well as yourselves. this needs proper thought mate. good luck!
2006-10-06 06:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run fast before you end up getting her pregnant and having four kids.
2006-10-06 06:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by Logic_5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously desperate.. but If you really like her.. or even love her .. and especially if u love kids.. than go ahead!! Nothin' to stop you from seeing her..
2006-10-06 06:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kissss_My_Asss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get out now before you get hurt, unless you're
just going along for the ride...which ain't good either.
2006-10-06 06:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want a meaning ful relationship with her go slow.
2006-10-06 06:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she exactly wants. and from there, make ur decision based on what she tells u
2006-10-06 06:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by SweetHeart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she really likes you or is just lonely.Give it a try,,
2006-10-06 06:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋