My boyfriend and I love to have sex but I have noticed lately he has ran out of new moves....niether of us appreciate porno, plus it seems we have tried all their moves. Now he does the same few things everytime because they are his favorite moves, but not necessarily mine. How do I change the routine back to our screw like rabbits phase with no move used twice?
2006-10-06 06:14:55 · 18 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
before i even finish reading some of these answers let me clarify something. We are in a happy healthy MONOGOMOUS relationship....please do not advise me to bring someone else in! And we aren't some boring church type where hes doing me all the time...Im saying when its his turn because im exhausted from my part its the same ole same ole. come on people grow the **** up
2006-10-06 06:58:21 · update #1
Im married and have been for 3 years i know what you mean... me and my hubby got like that once but you just gotta take charge do things your way move around in the bed get some freeze pops thats fun. come up with something. sometimes something new is why its so exciting and sometimes you need a change of scenery do it on the table or in the closet get off the bed and get in the floor. small things make a big difference.
2006-10-06 06:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by inluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Try not having sex for about two weeks. Yup. Try! spend time together walking, going to the gym, going out for dinner or drinks, or just talking about stuff. Anything, everything. And if you start fighting, agree to disagree. At the end of the two weeks all that pent up frustration will create an unbelieveable explosion. All the old tricks will seem new again. And you can always visit your local sex emporium for new ideas. Try different places. the car, outdoors, indoors (not home) go wild but be careful you dont get caught. Watch the sparks revive.
2006-10-06 14:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the habits for him. Make the first move. Dress like the stars in the pornos. Climb into the shower with him. Use candles and/or mood lighting. Use flavored body oils and give him a massage. Tease & flirt with him over the phone, which will build anticipation.
Meet him at the door after work in a wild outfit, with his fave drink in your hand, deep kiss, remove his shoes, rub his shoulders, and if you get that far....you can figure out what else to do next !
2006-10-06 13:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try role playing...not in costume or anything. But, pretend you're on a first date, or you're complete strangers. Also, you may not have tried this, but you might try taking turns masturbating in front of each other. This is a huge turn on as it takes something that most people do in private and you both get to enjoy watching each other. One more thing, don't bother looking for new techniques, but improve the ones you already use. If you do the missionary position, place a couple of pillows under your butt. The extra angle improves thrust and he can get in deeper. You'll like this too. Do the same for a modified doggy style, but lie on your stomach with pillows under you. Have him enter you that way. One position that me and my wife enjoy is to lay on your side, pull up your top leg, have him straddle your lower leg and enter you that way. He can play with your a** and your B**bs at the same time. Use toys (vibrators, etc) and lotions and creams. Have fun!
2006-10-06 13:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal to level out in the sex department, but it can improve. I would takes things slower and relax. Extend foreplay longer and you both may be inspired. As far as the boyfriend doing the same moves, then take charge and show him some moves.
Have fun and don't over think things. Sex doesn't have to be an Olympic event, it is to give each other pleasure.
2006-10-06 13:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to an adult store and purchase a book on positions. I'm so SURE you havent done everything...you will be amazed. Why not do sex roles. Dress up....go to hotels/motels. Use other parts of the house. Scenery makes a difference in technique sometimes. G'luck
2006-10-06 13:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are only so many "moves". Once you've been together for a while, it becomes difficult to come up with new ideas that you haven't tried before. This is normal.
That doesn't mean sex has to be boring....why don't you tell him what you want?
2006-10-06 13:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop him. No I mean stop him for e while, then show him that you are not intrested anymore, then he will think to do something differently and he will started thinking about your choice. Stop this for 2/3 days and next day start but dont end with ejaculate. Talk in between sex, ask him to do like this like that... give
2006-10-06 13:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't tell ya, we ran out of the moves after a few dates... We're keeping busy doing other things.
2006-10-06 13:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Spencer's and by lotions and games the have crazy fun moves some old some new but it spices things up!! It's so fun!! And damn exciting!!
2006-10-06 13:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sissy Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋