My wife is 26 years old. We have been married for 6 months and haven't had sex since the honeymoon. She's been under alot of pressure at work and we've been having some problems at home. But even in the past when we had problems or were dealing with alot of stress, we'd still have sex at least once a week or maybe at the longest, every few weeks. She used to be a very sexual person. During our honeymoon we had sex 3 times in one week, which doesn't sound like alot, but for us, it had been alot in comparison to what it normally was. However, since we've been married we have NO SEX. I've tried everything, romance, asking her to see a counselor, to see her doctor...but she refuses to do any of it. It's like because she doesn't have the desire for sex, she doesn't feel the need to fix anything. Shouldn't she be in her sexual peak right now, or does that happen later?
2006-10-06 06:04:05 · 17 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Something else must be going on, has she started taking a different kind of birth control? I got on the deprovera shot and I completly lost the desire to have sex, I really hated the thought of having to do it but once I got off the shot I was fine and back into the groove. You really need to explain how you feel to her, let her know that sex is very important to you and that is how you show her the love you have for her and maybe she will tell you what is wrong.
2006-10-06 06:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual peak is not your problem. Women's sexual peak is later than guys .. guys peak at between 18 and 21, ladies, between later 20's and early 30's. No sex since your Honeymoon ? I'd tell her that it is very important to you and that you want to find some quiet time and just talk about it. If she continually refuses to talk about it .. well .. you have two choices then. Stay in a sexless marriage, or get a divorce. Sorry, but that is how I see it . Good Luck to you ! :)
2006-10-06 06:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for her to get a wake up call. Call a lawyer and start the divorce proceedings. I wouldn't complete it. But this will get her attention! Don't tell her either. Let the process server deliver it. She wants to play games with you. I realize that this is not all her fault, and your probably not that great a person, but to let someone sit this long without communicating why, it's unacceptable. When she gets the legal papers she will either 1)ask you why, and then the communication starts. or 2) She will agree that the marriage is over and you can continue with your life. Staying where you're at is insane.
2006-10-08 03:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you keep pushing a woman or try to be really fancy pancy with her or try to turn her on it usually turn her off when shes tired from all the stress. Just pretend like thats not on your mind and just be cool about things and youll reverse the pshycology and she'll wonder WHY! and you guys will be back in action!
If it doesnt work I dont know what to tell you, I lose my sexual desire the longest for just ONE WEEK...but just try that, it may work.
2006-10-06 06:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually it's in the 30's. I'm sorry you're having this problem, but since she's your wife now, you should just simply talk to her. Ask her what's going on and just flat out explain to her that you would like to have more sex and does she have any actual problem complying with your wishes.
2006-10-06 06:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady are not like adult males, our libido is a hundred% administration by using hormones. With maximum lady, their top can ensue any the place from their mid 20's to mid 30's. women people produce testosterone basically like adult males and it reaches its optimum stages in our mid 20's and then slowly starts off to say no and then in our 40's (specially circumstances until now) all our hormones start to say no until menopause, while they appreciably decline. a woman can seem completely healthful, yet nonetheless have extreme hormone problems. And at 38, she is approximately that age the place she could could desire to initiate taking organic supplements, like estroven. If it does not help she desires to work out her well-being care provider for hormone alternative scientific care. the two estrogen, or androgen.
2016-10-18 22:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by schrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it a womans 30s she usually hits her peak...your wife is young and she shouldnt be having these problems must be more to it...have her seek a professional for some help,before something happens in the marriage,that you or her may regret,like an affair,,good luck and best wishes
2006-10-06 06:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The peak is around 35 yrs old.
You got to get her to a professional. Theres someting underlying there that is affecting your relationship.
2006-10-06 06:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 to 69!
And they will all cheat for attention I know I am a woman! They will lie as well and make the men look like paranoid fools! Just giving u guys some truth! It ain't pretty...No wonder so many guys are gay!
2006-10-06 06:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try 35 is when she should peak......I'm 41 and still wanting and needing it atleast 4 times a week
2006-10-06 06:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋