I am one of the nicest people you will meet, but for some reason some people feel uneasy around me.
I believe that it is because of how i present myself. If i had to label myself i might fall under scene/glam/emo,, i guess idk. i try not to lable....its really lame.
anywayz some people take my imgage and turn me into something im not.
my guidence teacher call me into her office cause she thought i was a cutter!!.
some people can really shock you... the people who are my friends will even tell you that it doesnt get any sweeter than me.!
so tell me...why do you think people fear what they arent?
2006-10-06 05:29:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Why do you assume others judge you, I've just checked your old questions and that seems to be the subject of many of them.
So don't have a go at people judging you when you are already judging us.
By the way .... you're full of sh1t and have an ego problem
2006-10-06 05:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard the saying about 1st impressions? The first thing people see is the first thing they assume. If you look and/or dress in a way that makes you look other than what you are, that's what people will perceive. I'm not saying it's right, but it's a fact of life.
From what you've written, you seem like a sweetie, but how would people know that if you look like and carry yourself like you're suicidal or could snap at any moment and possibly commit murder, then you can't expect for them to see the beauty underneath.
Do you dress like that for a specific reason? To rebel, or you actually like the fashion (which isn't working for you, if you're writing this), or you're trying to make a statement.
You need to decide if you want people to REALLY see you. If so, then the outside HAS to match the inside. Real friends are gonna accept you whatever you wear. Think about what you really want, then go for it!
Hope this helps. Good Luck Sweetie!
2006-10-06 12:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by dct1218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, we are judged by our appearances. It's just life. You could be nicer than Mother Teresa, but if you dress like a goth/whatever, people will assume you're not Mother Teresa.
It just comes with it. I don't know what to tell you other than deal with or change your look.
2006-10-06 12:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When only one person is against us we can blame him or her, but every one blame us we have to think about ourselves and give a second thought that whether we are really good or we have to change our attitude? Before anyone judges us we have to judge ourselves. May be you are very nice but u have to change the attitude. Try it.
2006-10-06 12:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by cindrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are dumb they jump in to conclusions way to fast , we live in a word that judges before it knows all the fact don't feel bad, live your life with a smile and **** everyone who brings you down.
2006-10-06 12:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by Cygnus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's easier for someone to put you down and put themselves up then the reverse.
2006-10-06 12:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by James C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we have stereotyped images of what is nice and acceptable AND what is bad and unacceptable. we have already boxed certain personalities. if you don't fall in their built-up category, then you're wrong.
just continue being yourself. you will never be able to please everyone.
2006-10-06 12:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by jedi_rei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think it is coz people just fear new things, and what is the best way too react for them, with defence...thus being mean....if you want you can always go to my profile and email me....
2006-10-06 12:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by ET 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourselfâ¥
2006-10-06 12:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u r over-confident
2006-10-06 12:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by merna12101983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋