I would like to have another man join us in our sex. How do I approach my wife with this?
2006-10-06 05:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by Joesmoe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you want to stay married? Marriage is between a man and a woman. There is a reason for this. You need to bond with your spouse and not have anything (or anyone) between you. I think you need to search your soul. I heard a saying "You invited God to your wedding, now invite him to your marriage."
Your wife can give you everything you need and you can fight any temptations that lead to immoral acts. But you need the help of the Holy Spirit by asking Jesus into your heart.
It can happen.
2006-10-06 05:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by uds_montoya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mention it in a casual way. You could say "Guess what I saw on Yahoo Answers today! A man asked about bringing another man into the bedroom with his wife. What do you think about that?" Then see what her reaction is. You will be able to tell if she is open to it, or if she is absolutely, never, ever, ever going to consider it. Of course, keep in mind that proticol in such a situation is for her to say "Honey, you are all the man I need, I would never want that". And you could say "Well, if you ever wanted to try something like that, we could discuss it" The seed has been planted, give it a few days to take root, and then bring it up again, quoting some of the answers you get from us. Good Luck.
2006-10-06 12:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah - the old 'menage a trois scenario' - although it's more normal for you to want another woman join in.
As long as you can handle seeing your wife enjoying sex with another man........you never know, she might enjoy it better......and then what?
Fantasies are sometimes best kept that...........people get hurt in real life!
2006-10-06 12:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by kamirsam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would start off watching porn together with the scenerio that you are wanting....test her reactions to it..talk about it..fantazise a lil with her about it... Use a dong on her while you guys are having sex so she'll get the idea of how wonderful it would be to have two males.... Then after you see that she is open to it, just ask her. Maybe she'll want it too..maybe she'll want another woman too.. you'd be suprised.
Good luck! =)
2006-10-06 12:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id have to agree with the first answer here.
You should be able to tell if your wifes into that kinda stuff from previous experience or just plain watching porn.
ıf shes anything like me..shell divorce you the minute you flat out ask her ^^
boy and wud that be a sight to behold! lol
2006-10-06 12:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you straight???
usually men want a woman to join-
answer to your question - as long as you don't mind sharing your wife -bring it up see how she feels about the idea
2006-10-06 12:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she is opened to a menage Mai trios??? But I guess that would all depend on how open you are her are in you relationship.
2006-10-06 12:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by wallcritter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure ur wife thinks the same as you do! if not she will slap the crap out of you thinking u are disrespecting her!!!!!
2006-10-06 13:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by ceci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you wanna go and do that he may be better than you and she sneaks and keep having sex with him dont do it
2006-10-06 12:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lord does your wife know you are Gay?
2006-10-06 12:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by Blk Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋