I'm only 20 and my husband is 23, we got married about 2 years ago and before that we were together for 3 years. So basically, I've been with the same person since i was 15 (I do love him) and I was just wondering if i'm missing out on anything, or am i blessed to have found my spouse already? Please share your personal experiences. Thanks.
2006-10-06 05:21:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
I'm 25, my hubby is 28. We've been together since I was 17 and he was 19 (before he turned 20 for those mathematicians!). I ran into some old high school friends recently, and they couldn't believe we were still together!
We've been through the ups and downs, and the morphing of our relationship from a fun teenage one to a serious adult one. Which I'm sure you've gone through also. It's not easy, but since we do love each other so much, it was worth it.
I don't think we've missed out on anything. The things our single friends do alone (clubs, parties, movies, etc) we get to do together. And believe me the sex is better than any one night stand!
I think you have something really special there. As do we. Just be sure and know that being together requires work, and not giving up! Enjoy!
2006-10-06 05:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you love him and he loves u, and u have a sucessful marriage and a happy family, why you worry about other men. He is your and he is the best gift god give u.
If you think the marrige is not good or u are not happy, you may need to think it all over ( maybe u are right u should find others) but never too late to find another Man.
Last year, I have fall in love with a boy, but I do not sure he loves me, but I stand for what I think was right, so I reject every male who comes to me after him. Right now, I finally found out I can not go with a person doesnot tell me he loves me or not. I am very sorry for all the male I have reject last year. ( I really felt I have lost many great chances.)
I wish u make a right choice. Don't make any big mistake. No everything cans start over again. especially 5 yrs understanding and living. Including friendship between you and him, and family. U need to think carefully before make a conclusion.
I give you my best wishes, Do you best. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-06 06:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by KAREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am love with the man I am with. We have been in love since I was 17. (now I'm going on 25) we have been an on and off thing and we have just found that we are happier with each other. Neither of us wants to be with anyone else. I personally don't think you are missing out on anything. If you are happy and in love with him then Congratulations enjoy your life. Hopes it's a long and happy one.
2006-10-06 05:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great! I am 20 also, and my boyfriend is 24. I wish we could get married soon, but I am in college full-time.
I would only say you missed out if you personally feel like you missed out on something to the point that it really bothers you. But don't feel like you have to feel that way. Everyone is different, and plenty of people are perfectly happy with one love forever, while others feel they need to experience many things.
2006-10-06 05:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_lil_butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not missing out on much.. As long as you 2 are open enough to experience what the other one wants is good. I've lived the single life, and it's not all that glamorous. It can be fun, But I enjoy more sharing experiences w/ someone I love, That loves me back. I'm currently w/ my guy, and much happier. I think you are blessed to be w/ yur guy all these years. COngrats, and good luck w/ life..
2006-10-06 05:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so lucky to have found true love so early. There must be something special between both of you.
As you grow old together, I hope instead of feeling bored or missing the unknown, you will attempt to discover and periodically rejuvenate the love you found at the beginning.
2006-10-06 05:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by reguser2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 of my bestfriends dated every since middleschool and are now married. They are best friends and lovers and seem like the happiest couple I know. I am sure they have their thoughts about never seeing anyone else but then they look at the bond they have and all the bad relationships they have seen the rest of us go through and are happy they never dealt with that. Consider yourself lucky.
2006-10-06 05:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tazaor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband at 14, all started dating at sixteen, married at 23, had a baby at 24, we at the instant are the two 25. i'm sooooo in love with him. he's a superb guy or woman and we've already been with the aid of alot. i won't lie and assist you recognize that we havent had our honest share of problems, its no longer elementary to in certainty "enhance up" mutually, specially situations we do combat like brother and sister and specially situations i think of we've the two puzzled did I omit out with the aid of turning out to be so serious so youthful, yet what i will assist you recognize for beneficial is that no longer something that I neglected out on could ever discover ways to what I honestly have been given. My soulmate. My ultimate chum. And god could love me through fact I have been given him at sixteen yrs previous!
2016-12-08 09:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by killeen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for over 5 years now, and we dated since I graduated from high school. I am 30 now, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. My wife is my soulmate, we are perfect for each other. you are truly blessed to find that perfect someone.
2006-10-06 05:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by forjj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a case-by-case basis Nora. Some first loves last forever together; some don't. Enjoy the moment. When the enjoyment ends, move on.
2006-10-06 05:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋