I'm only 20 and my husband is 23, we got married about 2 years ago and before that we were together for 3 years. So basically, I've been with the same person since i was 15 (I do love him) and I was just wondering if i'm missing out on anything, or am i blessed to have found my spouse already? Please share your personal experiences. Thanks.
2006-10-06 05:20:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
My husband is VERY good to me. he's really patient, caring, and always puts me first, but we're always bickering and it annoys me more than it annoys him. I guess i just thought that it isn't normal to fight. I have a lot to learn still... Thanks everyone!!!
2006-10-06 05:37:04 · update #1
I'm 21 and been with my boyfriend since I was about to turn 16 trust me you are missing nothing if you are happy me and him have our ups and downs and have broken up and Ive tried talking to other people and they are lame so listen to me if you are happy stay cause you'll have to kiss alot of toads to get a prince and you don't want that
2006-10-06 05:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by kandigyrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weired at all in my opinion. I made a wrong decision way back. Married someone else. Would never regret having my daughter - - But I have been looking for my High School Sweetheart since my divorce 26 yrs ago with absolutely no success.
2006-10-06 05:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it being weird, whoever tells you that is just jealous. In this world of cheating/lieing/and abusive relationships/onenight stands etc I could go on!If you're happy don't go looking for trouble by questioning it. I was in a similar situation we were together since I was 16 married and prego at almost 19 and married for 6yrs before we seperated. I don't regret it.
2006-10-06 05:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are lucky to have found someone that makes you happy and that you have a past and present with. my high school sweetheart still talk but he is married and i have two kids and single. we still love each other and we know that we were meant to be together, but things just didn't work out. don't ever doubt that you are missing out on things, because even if you were out there you will still want that one person.
2006-10-06 05:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by kayla b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are happy. Thats what counts. I know quite a few people that are still with thier high school sweethearts. Some couples grow apart, but then again some grow together and it all works out.
2006-10-06 05:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by bustylaroo99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband at 14, began dating at sixteen, married at 23, had a infant at 24, we are actually the two 25. i'm sooooo in love with him. he's an outstanding guy or woman and we've already been by alot. i can not lie and inform you that we havent had our truthful share of issues, its no longer common to rather "strengthen up" jointly, from time to time we do combat like brother and sister and from time to time i think of we've the two puzzled did I omit out by growing to be so serious so youthful, yet what i can inform you indubitably is that no longer something that I ignored out on would desire to ever evaluate to what I even have been given. My soulmate. My superb pal. And god could love me because of the fact I have been given him at sixteen yrs previous!
2016-12-26 11:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're happy you're not missing out on anything. i'm with the same person since highschool (going on 7 years together) if you are having second thoughts you could try talking to him, maybe change some things up, start going on dates, go for walks together, share a hobby, go away for the weekend. if that doesn't work you could try counseling too.
2006-10-06 05:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats awesome. You are blessed. If you have someone you get along with and that you picture your self together forever with. Thank thers nothing wrong with that at all. You are not missing out on anything!
2006-10-06 05:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are happy with him its not wierd... i think its cute that you married you high school sweetheart! I dont think you are missing out on anything... i think you are lucky to have already found your spouse.
2006-10-06 05:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by KitKat4106 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're missing out on AIDS and a ton of other STDs. If you have a good thing going, you wouldn't question it. What is the *real* issue here?
2006-10-06 05:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by Frankie P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋