I'm only 20 and my husband is 23, we got married about 2 years ago and before that we were together for 3 years. So basically, I've been with the same person since i was 15 (I do love him) and I was just wondering if i'm missing out on anything, or am i blessed to have found my spouse already? Please share your personal experiences. Thanks.
2006-10-06 05:18:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm 28 and have been with my hubby since I was 15 too. Married 6 years, together 13. Sometimes I feel like maybe we missed out on being the typical twenty year olds, going to the bars, parties, etc. But then I talk to my friends who now want to find someone, and have kids, and they can't find anyone. I consider myself really lucky to have found the one for me when I was young. I think we have a very strong relationship. Both of our parents met in high school and are still married. I can't imagine what my life would be without him in it. We now have two beautiful little girs, a house, good jobs, the perfect "American Dream". Don't get me wrong, we argue once in a while, but overall I have a great marriage. Best of luck to you two!!
2006-10-06 05:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband at 14, started dating at 16, married at 23, had a baby at 24, we are now both 25. I am sooooo in love with him. He is a wonderful person and we have already been through alot. I will not lie and tell you that we havent had our fair share of problems, its hard to basically "grow up" together, sometimes we do fight like brother and sister and sometimes I think we have both questioned did I miss out by becoming so serious so young, but what I can tell you without a doubt is that nothing that I missed out on could ever compare to what I have been given. My soulmate. My best friend. And god must love me because I got him at 16 yrs old!
2006-10-06 05:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but i am now 26 and have been with my husband since i was 17 we have been married for 6 years. I have 3 children now and would not change anything for the world. I don't think i have missed anything, i love my life, my husband and i still go out once in a while, and have our fun. If you feel regrets then you should start looking, i on the other hand am very happy with my life. Good Luck!!
2006-10-06 05:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by lala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone thinks differently. Some may think that if they get marry later on than it will be better for them. Here is the thing.
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They think that is because just incase there is someone else better than that person who they may want to be with.
2)Or they want to see more what is out there. Just incase they want to achieve more goals before they want to settle down.
3) Want to have more fun before they are tied up.
There is a lot of many other reasons. If a person is not mature enough or afraid of commitment than they should carefully think about marriage before they might regret in the future.
But deeply ask yourself.. or you happy with this guy? Do you still have the same feelings as before. Or it even grew because you guys have went through the ups and downs....Good luck
2006-10-06 05:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by ceci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with mine for 20 years. I love that we have the same memories of music, events, and school and people.
It feels weird when I meet the friends of my kids ; who are the age I was when I met their father and I wonder if this will be the last time I ever see them or will these kids be in my sons' lives 20 years from now too?
When I met my husband I never thought I would still be with him today. However, from the first day he met me he told me what his intentions were and I thought they were cute but that he couldn't possibly mean them. I was wrong and he has always done exactly as he promised he would.
Also, you always hear that people never get over their first love. I think that is because we are meant to give our hearts truly to only one person.
2006-10-06 17:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-29 06:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not weird at all. I have known my husband since i was 15, been together since we were 16. He and I have been married 16 years.I would not trade for anything in the world. If he makes you happy that is all that counts. If that is weird than I guess I am to. PROUD TO BE WEIRD.
2006-10-06 06:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Joystick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blessed. you aren't missing out on anything, trust me! My husbands parents have been together since middle school! married for 35 years! His sister and her husband are high school sweethearts too. they are happily married as will!
2006-10-06 05:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me, but I dont regret not one thing....I think your fortunate!!!!....You know how long it takes someone to find theyre true love and you already have one!!! I think its beautiful!!!! This is from the same expierence, keep going girl!!! Love speaks for itself and I would never give what I did up!! What are you missing....? I see it like, if you married at 25-30, youve only lived your life partying and traveling heart break after heart only to find out who your true love is........and you had that before all the heart breaks and pain......I hope I helped you!
2006-10-06 06:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Similar scenario here too. We are currently getting a divorce after 8 year of marriage. Getting married at a young age seldom works out in the long run. You miss out on too much of what you each should experience. Good luck!
2006-10-06 05:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋