I can't help but feel that my girlfriend prefers hanging out & talking with her female & male close friends instead of me. When we are both together inside the car, her tone of voice is usually serious. No laughter. A series of silence. But with her friends, always laughter. Am i insecure? neglected? or Jealous?
2006-10-06 04:58:48 · 13 answers · asked by Patrick H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, from what it sounds like, you're completely justified in worrying about the relationship. If you feel as though she shows more interest in her friends than pursuing a relationship with you, perhaps you should bring it to her attention one day. It may be a sign of her losing interest...Has it always been like that where she showed more interest in her own friends than you, or is it something that's recently happened?
2006-10-06 05:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by vain_swordsman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she always been this way? I don't think she would've agreed to be your girlfriend if she didn't enjoy your company. Maybe her friends have a similar sense of humor to hers. Have you been together long? Maybe when her and her friends get together, they reminisce about old times.
If this is behavior she has just started to show, I would think that she is no longer feeling the relationship. There could be a number of possibilities. I think it would be best to tell her what you notice and ask her how she feels about you and the relationship.
2006-10-06 12:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely understandable that you are having jealous feelings, you and your girlfriend have a relationship , and she might not be feeling the same way. Don't over worry yourself, and don't make urself seem like you want her to stop seeing her friends forever , cause that will piss her off, but, make sure that you ask her how she is feeling about ur relationship. Tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way, maybe you two weren't meant to be together?!!?!?!??!
2006-10-06 12:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Evilisme_chickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe all of the above. Have you tried talking to her about this? Or making her laugh? There could be a problem here that she is hiding or maybe you are just being paranoid.
2006-10-06 12:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a bit weird. Maybe she just feels comfortable with you and like she doesnt have to put on a show. I know i can go out and be really funny and loud and come home and just be tired and quiet. it might just be that
2006-10-06 12:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the above. But you are her true best friend, so she needs to treat you as that. Try talking to her, not at her. Get her to see your point of view.
2006-10-06 12:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by Witchy Woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neglected if she acts different with you then she's putting on a act.
2006-10-06 12:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Michele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-06 12:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealous
2006-10-06 12:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealous
2006-10-06 12:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by sonya c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋