i had my period in sept then i stopped taking my bc, had another period week later.i was on bc for 3 months[it regulated my period which is imbalanced because of thyroid]i have always had sex abt 5 time a week.still no luck getting pregnant. im not sure if i ovulated twice last month cause 2 periods but i had sex all last month anyways.im not sure what day im spose 2start this month either. if im going by the 1st period i had then im 3 days late.i bought a dollar store test today & it was neg :( im not sure if i shud test later on or not. could i be pregnant? i have all the pregnacy/pms symptoms but it cud be my oncoming period. who knows. i do really want a baby. shud i go to the doctor? what can i do to get preg? all answers would be greatly appreciatied.
2006-10-06 04:55:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
my friend is going through the same thing with trying to get pregnant. She was on the pill for a very long time and its been a year for purging her system. She was 37 when she started to try, so age is obviously a factor. She ended up get tested to see if she had a good supply of egg production/release/falopian tube normal. It turned out that it was her husband's problem, not hers. His sperm didn't produce enough good sperm to penetrate the egg. Check with your OB/GYN if this is something of interest to you. They can direct you to a specialist, especially if you still aren't conceiving. BTW: it's okay to not be married yet and try to get pregnant. These things take time and it's frustrating for both of you. Only you know how strong your bond with your partner is and no one should judge you on your decision to have a child because of your marital status.
2006-10-06 05:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by new_mommy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had friends that have gotten pregnant their first month off birth control. If I were you I would wait another 3 days and take another test or go buy one of the more sensitive tests. I got a positive at 10dpo. If you are not preggo just try to give it a little time it will happen. I know that waiting sucks.Good Luck!!!!!!!!
2006-10-06 06:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by esb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your fiance to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your fiance to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-10-07 02:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out you just started trying. give your body time to get the pill out of your system this can take up to a year. and i agree how about get married first. then have a baby. you just came of the pill a month ago thats not a awhile i have been trying for three years and have had to miscarriages. thats awhile. give your body time like a yeat or more then ask this nd get married first
2006-10-06 05:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married first. Seriously, it's not going to look good having your child running around at your wedding or having everyone's attention on the baby instead of the bride and groom. Get married, have a honeymoon, spend a few years enjoying your new husband, then have kids. It's a good order of doing things--too bad people don't seem to care about it anymore.
2006-10-06 04:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Your fiance, huh? A baby deserves to come into this world with committed parents who have taken a vow to love and protect each other and him. After they are married, they save and plan for a baby so that he can have a roof over his head, food, clothing, and medical expenses covered. They have planned ahead so that there is money saved for his education. Otherwise you have no business having a baby.
2006-10-06 05:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i have the same problem with my period.....but i think you should see ur doctor seems to me your period its still not regular since you got it twice last month....but you can try to count and calculate you most fertile days.......good luck to you.....and again i really recomend you see your doctor first. =)
2006-10-06 05:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a new rage to get pregnant before getting married? I don't get it...I understand accidents before marriage, but trying? Just get married and save your kid the wondering if he was the cause of your marriage.
2006-10-06 04:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Go to http://www.mymonthlycycles.com and put in your period info and it will calculate when you will be fertile and ovulating.
It is a very helpful and free site.
To read more about when to test go to http://www.peeonastick.com
Good luck
2006-10-06 05:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u really want a baby, y dnt u adopt
2006-10-06 05:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by stonebornturbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋