When I ask him about it he says that he would never do that he loves our daughter and I too much to leave. Well if thats true why do I keep haveing dreams like that. Like last night my dream was I walked in on my having sex with a good friend of ours, before we got married we had some problems so broke up for awhile well then when we started talking again she would always call him and talk to him about the problems she was having with her boyfriend at the time, this really bothered me because thats how my husband and I got together we were best friends and he would always call and talk to me about his girlfriend and want to know sweet things he could do for her so I alway got mad when she would call all the time. So anyway why am I having dream like this???
2006-10-06 04:55:15 · 18 answers · asked by navywife20005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to change your train of thoughts, you are probably always thinking about it, you have to stop being so insecure. Now you have to start to loosen up,and have fun, and stop thinking all of this evil stuff. And work on building a strong relationship with your husband, because if you keep this up, you are going to push him away from you. By you thinking of this all of the time, you have this in your subconscious mind, that is why you are dreaming of it, now if you can not work on this yourself, then you need help, go and seek counseling!!
2006-10-06 05:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forget Why you dream.
Most people do not remember dreams, it is usual the daydream type,as your are waking. It is a time you mentally can vision and manipulate the story.
You imagine problems you fear, so that inside your brain, you can solve the problem, IF it should occur in reality.
You remember being naked in public, flying or falling.
Just this morning I dreamed I walked into the workshop and all my machinery was gone. Talk about a panic. That real! :)
You know your hubbies time line and his moods.
Do not stress youself with imaginings. It sounds like you're both open and honest just talk, tell him to take you out and the two of you party.
2006-10-06 05:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are just random thoughts mixing it up and floating to the surface while you are sleeping. Nothing in reality usually happens as you dreamed about it. People and places and events that are current in your thoughts when you go to sleep most often pop up in dreams first. Don't worry yourself over dreams as that is all they are; dreams.
2006-10-06 04:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are insecure. You shouldn't make it his problem because you are the one having these dreams. Why are you asking him to defend himself? If it was me and you kept treating me with suspicion, then I might as well go ahead and cheat on you because that's what you think anyway. It would be better if you could work on yourself to be more secure in your relationship.
2006-10-06 05:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by nuclear_science 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreams are your thoughts being processed through REM (rapid eye moment), You are having these dreams because that is what you are thinking about. It doesnt mean that its true. You need to clear your mind and stop thining that he is cheating on you. I promise, once you think positive you will have better dreams!
2006-10-06 04:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just thinking too much. trust me.. when someone think too much this is how people get those kinda dream. try to relax, read a book or watch a movie before bed and stop thinking the negetive. sweet dreams to you...
2006-10-06 04:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you guys have a good sex life? If not, that may be why youare having these dreams...You may know that things aren't good and think he is going to stray because of it
2006-10-06 05:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams always mean the opposite, you must have your hubby wrapped around your lil' finger. You go girl, keep it up!
2006-10-06 05:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are insurcure and have in the back of you mind that he will cheat. If its only dreams, I would forget it. Reality is what counts. He probley thinks your going pycho on him blaming him from the dreams you have.
2006-10-06 04:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by browndog513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell us more about the dream. Do you join in with them? If so then it is a fantasy, make it come true...GO FOR IT!!
2006-10-06 05:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by Joesmoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋