i love my husband of 8 years w/one child. great relationship, etc.
i keep getting calls from my business inspector. The more i talk to him and the more he complaments me the more i want to have a fling. I don't love him, but i have some hard vibrations about him. which is also married. he calls me one to three times a week
with the dumbest excuses pretainting to my business but i know he has vibes also. what should i say to him? what should i do? he lives 90 minutes away from me. I can't get him off my mind. how should i approach him? He is also jepradizing his job.
2006-10-06 04:14:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It should not be a problem. Remeber though you most likely will get caught, crush your husband, and break up that home of yours. Oh the other thing is the inspector doesnt have "vibes" he is horny--
Grow up-dont talk to this guy unless you have to-better yet-just dont --------ask yourself what your reaction would be if your husband did what your thinking of.....
2006-10-06 04:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to wonder the what if's but it's pretty wrong to act on them. If your husband is a loving and caring mant hen stay with him. If not, then you need to divorce him and then move on, it's not fair to your husband and your child to just have a fling with some man you hardly know, no matter how many tiems you talk on the phone.
2006-10-06 04:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by OohLaLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard but you have to stay away think about what's going to happen if you did have a fling, you'll be hurting people that you actuallt love like your husband and the child you both have, also divorce is very messy, do you want to lose your child over something so stupid!
2006-10-06 04:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by slai171 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your husband was having hard vibration feelings about another. Hurts don't it. You took vows so did that other guy. You should both be ashamed of yourselves. what about the child? 8 years is nothing to throw away
2006-10-06 04:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you will stop and think before you act. You said you don't love him and even if you did, what would it do to your husband and child if they found out. I can assure you, the truth will eventually come out. Also, if he would cheat on his wife with you, what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you with another woman. The best thing for you to do is distance yourself from him until these feelings subside and remind yourself that you have a committment to your husband and child.
2006-10-06 04:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by nomad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never understand why people even have to ask these questions. You know its wrong so dont do it! You are just looking for someone to tell you its ok to cheat on your husband. TRAMP!
2006-10-06 04:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you fill but also tell him you don't like jeopardizing your job and ask him if he is coming on to you and also ask him if this is worth loosing every thing you both have, .take a reality check
2006-10-06 04:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOO business and relationships... never work out. Stay with your man
2006-10-06 04:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR MARRIAGE. IF NOT BE A WH**E AND SLEEP WITH HIM.
YOUR BEST BET WOULD BE TO TELL YOUR HUSBAND THAT HE IS NOT COMPLIMENTING YOU ENOUGH.
"COMMUNICATE"
2006-10-06 04:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're an idiot. Your husband deserves better.
2006-10-06 04:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by beach bum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋