I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years already. When I make out with her, I usually feel her chest (under her shirt) and she doesn't mind. She usually never take my hand off. About like 3 months ago, when I was making out with her, she took my hand and put it on her chest. How do I get her to feel my p e n i s? Whenever I talk to her about it, she said it is disgusting and wouldn't even want to bother touching my p e n i s. I think I am ready to play with her c l i t already. Do I just play with her c l i t when I am making out with her? I have no intentions of sex. What should I do??
2006-10-06 04:09:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We are both 24
2006-10-06 04:16:19 · update #1
just wait until she is ready.
2006-10-06 13:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while you are feeling under her shirt, take it off and see how she reacts. If she is ok with it, play with her coohcie through her pants and then work to putting your hand down her pants. Next step is to get them off. You should get her riled up enough to at first rub youon the outside of your pants and go from there. Good luck, she is probably a vixen in the sack. She just doesn't know it yet.
2006-10-06 11:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Oral activity is something that you both need to be ready for. Why does she think it is disgusting? You need to have an open conversation about the situation. Couples need to be able to talk about sex or sexual activity openly. It may be a little awkward but if you guys talk about it will only improve your connection to each other.
2006-10-06 11:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kamunyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make her feel uncomfortable. You can't get anyone to do anything, and if you just plant her hand down there, you might be back at square one. But if you insist, you can do what all guys do, gradually make your way down, and if she reacts like she's uncomfortable, then stop.
2006-10-06 11:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you've been in this rut for how long? 3 years? Well, if she finds yoru penis disgusting now, she's not likely to warm to it later. You need to find out what her issues are. She sounds either immature, or irrational. You need to find out why that is.
2006-10-06 11:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, though you may be ready to move forward,..she may not be. if she doesn't want to play with you down there...don't force her. also, don't go right to her private area either. move slowly....stomach, hips, legs.....see where she will let you go. take it easy and don't rush..enjoy this part of your intimate relationship. besides..it is good you and her talk openly about what you and her like and don't like. that communication is good practice..and will be useful, especially when things get serious.
2006-10-06 11:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy this is what you do:
press up close to her, that way you can touch her wherever.
When your kissing, slowly guide her hand down to your crotch. hold her hand thereand let her stroke you. If she doesn't want to, let go of her hand slowly and keep moving your hands down to her crotch an dhold her real close to you. Grind on her if you want.
2006-10-06 11:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by firefury1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk with her dad about this. I'm sure it's scary, but he's a guy and he understands that you have needs. He will probably tell you the best moves that will work on her - he knows her better than anybody.
If that doesn't work, write to me and I'll tell you the moves I used on her. She went wild!!!
2006-10-06 11:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by toaster4 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If sex isnt the end result. why tease you and her. Obviosly your both real young and virgins. Don't waste valuable years with D teases. There are girls out there who would way more than touch your penise.
2006-10-06 11:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you call that girlfriend problems?
man thierz much worse problemz in the world and u call THIS problems?
i should internet punch you in the mouth
2006-10-06 11:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋