i am not an expert at it yet and i tend to get shy and uneasy with my body and what the guy might think.
2006-10-06 04:04:30 · 17 answers · asked by kalera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think it's normal to have ANjoyed anything
2006-10-06 04:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by megtownson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi this is why your arent enjoying sex as you are to worried, your boyfriend will be just a nervous and he wont even be thinking how you look as he will be so excited to have you that he wont even notice you have any body flaws. Everyone is like this there first times and its normal, but unless you relax then you wont be comfortable. Just make your self feel more confident by dressing up and being in control of the situation, rather that backing down and thinking oh no, Just you take control and see how you feel then. There is no need to be uneasy unless you dont even want to touch the other person, but if this isnt the case then maybe you arent ready to be in a sexual relationship as if you dont get aroused then there is nothing you can do especially if you are not attracted to your partener. If you do get a thought in to your head but are worried your partener wont like it, then just do it.Dont be shy everything will be more fun and then you will start to enjoy it
2006-10-06 04:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless your partner is just "small" or not good at what he does. But it sounds like your thinking to much about what the guy thinks about your body that might be stressing you out during sex, so you can't enjoy it. So during sex forget about what the guy thinks about your body and just enjoy it. If that doesnt work he's not doing somethuing right. Though im 15 and not an expert either but trust me on this.
2006-10-06 04:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by dream_harts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if anjoying the sex is normal or not but I dont mind giving it a try
2006-10-06 04:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. If you don't like the guy then that will play a part. But just relax sex is meant to be enjoyable
2006-10-06 05:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ribeana2Sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your selection, yet you're very unsuitable once you describe the desire to have intercourse as an "risky want" intercourse is an particularly typical and wholesome want and is mandatory to determine the survival of the species. averting intercourse because you have been taught it is something to feel embarrassment approximately is lots extra risky. In answer on your question, no, it quite is not typical. it is typical and customary to have fears and reservations approximately doing something new yet maximum folk improve out of those fears.
2016-10-15 21:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never used to enjoy it much untill i found my fella now, its prob jus that the guy isnt spending enough time relaxin u n makin u feel special. its nice when foreplay is prolonged for a while untill neither of u can manage anymore without havin sex lol.
2006-10-06 04:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by sweetlipsy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah there is many a time in a man/womans life that they will not enjoy sex and just lie there to please the other person an keep wishing it 2 hurry up!!! iv been there my self (not enjoying the sex) but put up with it not 2 hurt the other persons feelings.
2006-10-06 04:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by mummyzgall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex can be ok but wait until you are inlove and then when you make love you can experience the most heavenly out of this world pleasures of body and mind
2006-10-06 04:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not enjoying it because the boys you've been with have no clue on how to satisfy you and haven't even been trying, because they just want to get their rocks off.
2006-10-06 04:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋