I was wondering - when i'm making love or giving oral to my fiancee his legs start shaking uncontrolablly (it actually looks like the neurogenic tremors or selfinducted tremors that somebody gets after working out), now i know it's from the adrenalin and we all have our own reactions....but this REALLY turns me on!!!! He is my man and knowing that I make him tremble is soooo good. I adore feeling it BUT he has an issue with it, he maybe thinking it's not manly enough - what is totally silly for me! (i talked to him he promised he will relax and naturally i'll do everything that it happens- we'll see)....So does any of you girls like this too? ;) And question for guys: How many of you don't like the shaking when it happens and why?
I just think it's so hot!!! :)
Thanks in advance ;)
2006-10-06 04:03:26 · 6 answers · asked by lina_girl06 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Just to add that I didn't refere when somebody is first time with a person of opposite sex....then it's being nervous that makes them shake. I was talking about making somebody go crazy to the point their legs would start shaking from the adrenalin :) Big turn on for me to feel them trembling! And my fiancee had gfs before me too...so definitly not a first time in anything :)
2006-10-06 04:16:03 · update #1
So any ides why guys don't like it when it happens to them?!
2006-10-06 04:46:24 · update #2
Been married for 26 years, been with my wife for over 30, you guys are pretty new at this. Maybe he's still uncomfortable being so totally vulnerable with you, and afraid of losing control. Frankly, the stronger the relationship gets, the more at ease he should be with WHATEVER his reaction is to having sex with you. In the extreme, I've been known to bring my knees up almost to my chin, or to thrash about as my body is wracked with a big O. My wife loves it, so who am I to stop letting go? She's similar, a screamer who loves letting it all out. I once wrote her a letter describing what I thought she was going through, and described her spasms as trying to escape and prolong her climax at the same time. She said that was pretty accurate.
So my point (and I do have one) is that as the two of you grow emotionally and the bond between you continues to strengthen, maybe he will get used to giving himself totally to you, with all the tremors and spasms and thrashing and screaming. Encourage him, and let him know you like it. I think physical, sweaty, loud sex is just about the best damn thing on the planet.
PS to Ally - I think you and your boyfriend are experiencing the phenomenon that "During sex, my partner's always perfect". When the hormones are flowing, my wife is the most gorgeous, skinny thing, not a flaw to be found, and by the way she is amazingly flexible too. Once we're done, and while the glow is still on us, we laugh about how flawed we really are, but how it just don't matter at the time! You may feel self-conscious about what's happening to you, but take it from a guy, your bf thinks you're perfect. At least until he's finished ;-) Then you're 'only' amazing.
2006-10-06 08:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by newbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to get those when I was younger. Even when a girl touched me or hugged me, I would shake. I think it has to do a lot with certain nerves being stimulated for the first time, and they react in a funny way. As I got more comfortble with touching, kissing, and fooling around with girls, it went away.
2006-10-06 11:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have the reverse situation. when my boyfriend gives me oral my legs shake uncontrollably, and he loves it when my legs shake like that, he said it turns him on. but for me it feels sort of embarrassing, even though what he's doing feels really good. i can't explain why, but i'll try so here it goes. nobody i know does that when receiving oral from someone, so i felt weird lime something was wrong with me. and sometimes i think that it bothers my boyfriend, and that he thinks its annoying because my thighs are sometimes hitting him in the face, even though he's told me in all honesty that he thinks its hot and doesnt think anything of it. its weird for the person who has the legs shaking, awkward, i get so embarrassed sometimes. my boyfriend, his legs shake sometimes when i give him oral and i love it! like i said, it's hard to explain. its just awkward for him. hope this helps! :D
2006-10-06 14:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by ally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it just makes us feel weird and my fiancee does the same thing. she will laugh a bit and get more turned on. and when she does that i like it but for a split second im embarassed. but hey she enjoys it and she does the same thing when i do oral to her so i just call it even and we have the time of our lives
2006-10-06 12:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by lxahlers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine do dat to well not all the time - guess its the sucking or licking on the head of the penis ( can i say all that on here) - its seems like the harder the sucking the more my legs would shake
2006-10-06 11:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by youngson141 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love seeing them squirm, the facial expression and sounds they make just before they ***... it's HOT
2006-10-06 11:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋