2006-10-06 03:57:25 · 10 answers · asked by vinkush_sharma646 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
bcoz 'when u laugh the world laughs with u, when u cry u cry alone'
2006-10-06 04:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one stops you from sharin your sorrow with others.but that doesnt mean that u pick up any1 and start telling them your life's tragedy. honestly tell whom would u prefer a jovial person who laughs and cracks jokes or some dkhi aatma{sad soul} who is always crying about how unfair life has been. real ppl who know the art of life believe in finishing off the pain rather than holding on to it.i am sure u have sonfidants and best frnds whom u can share ur sorrows with.life is too small to cry and wail but its just enough to smile and enjoy. forget the elders forget the sayings make your own philosophies and enjoy!!
2006-10-06 14:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i came across a poster which read 70% of people laugh at our difficulties ... 30% ignore ...i guess u got the answer.. happiness comes only after trail to get this happines u would have crossed lot of hurdles ur happiness would result in motivating others .. on the other hand think of sorrows v will depress others right u have to choose a right person to share ur sorrows leasty he should mock at u
2006-10-06 14:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
vinkush i think because when we share our joys others also feel happy but when we share our sorrows even the other person will feel sad and the burden of that sorrow will not only felt by u but also by the other person.. and it is always better to spread happiness .
2006-10-06 11:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by sahana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not right to burden someone else with a grief that is your own. Only the good feelings are to be shared. When you share your sorrow, you give to the other person a feeling of unhappiness that is not their own.
2006-10-06 11:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hapyns when shared increases, sadness when shared decreases. Elders say increase hapyns but they never mean that dont decrease sadness but of course not sharing it with others but wid only those who is not "others" but a part of ur own heart. Those close to heart comes closer when u share sadness wid them.Sadness is a delicate passion of the innermost heart, not to be exihibited in front of everybody, it loses its meaning n intensity.Its a treasure to be shared wid selected few not the mass.We shud spread light in the mass n share darkness with the class.
2006-10-06 11:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by Leena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person you share you mishaps and sorrow!
If that person is your enemy, he/she will be happy inside, and you sure do not want to do that.
If that person is your friend, he/she will get sad, and you sure do not want your friend sad.
So better not to share sorrow with others. Elders asked us and there is a valid reason.
2006-10-06 11:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you share your feelings, it multiplies. While sharing happiness it multiplies and keeps everyone around. Similarly when you share sorrow, it also multiplies. Do you want to multiply sorrow?
2006-10-06 12:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by cvrk3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shares joys with others will increase your reputation as a happy person.
shares sorrows with others will spread as unhappy person.
this is due spreading the communications by others is more.
2006-10-06 11:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would I want to hear you bitc* about life's problems?
2006-10-06 11:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋