When she is sober she is really nive, understanding and a good laugh and we always talk about how good we are together and plans for the future, we get on really well and have a good time.
When she is drunk she gets jealous and says stuff like 'You don't love me', or just cries for no apparent reason and say's she doesn't trust me or think I love her. 'You will leave me when you meet someone better' etc etc.
Is there a problem?
2006-10-06 03:50:43 · 23 answers · asked by abluebobcat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
seems like shes an emotional drunk. Is she aware of this? Maybe she shouldnt drink, or just stop drinking around you.
2006-10-06 03:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-02 11:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big time there is...She' seems to have a problem in her head.If i was you i would finish it right now.I know this from past experience's with women who drink and behave this way.She need to go and get some help.If she loves you she will do what ever it take, to sort out her head problems, plus the drink.Stay apart until she has done so,then if you still love her,give it another go.If you stay with her while she is behaving this way, then i can assure you things will get worse...Best of luck.As i know its going to be hard, but this is the only way you can help her and yourself..Be strong.
2006-10-06 04:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is a problem. She is using this drug poorly. She doesn't seem to know her limits.
You need to have a very loving, compassionate conversation with her about how concerned you are about her behavior when she's drunk, and that you don't know how to deal with her when she is this way. Tell her everything you feel. If she understands, try to work out a compromise where she doesn't attempt to get drunk but perhaps stops at tipsy.
If she refuses to change then you may have to tell her that you won't go to parties with her anymore.
2006-10-06 03:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aske her when she is sober why she feels the need to drink and if she really means what she says when she is drunk and then work on sorting out any issues, together, from there.
2006-10-06 03:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's quite obvious shes got low self esteem, and drinking is her way of controlling her feelings, the next time she lashes out at you saying that you don't love her, just sit her down, tell her how much she means to you, remind her of the future plans you both want and just generally calm her down.
And i think you need to get her to slow down on the drink before things become to much and you end up splitting up, and i know you both love each other very much so.
Just give her lots of compliments and keep reminding her that shes all you want and that theres noone better than her and it will always stay that way, just reassure her of these things, and maybe you'll end up having a soppy evening telling each other how much you love one another.
Gals love it when guys go all soppy on 'em =P
take care
2006-10-06 04:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how you feel and that it cant go like that because it upsets you and her and for no apprant reason! Maybe its a certain drink and she can change what she has! That sounds mad but when ever i drank white wine i always started a fight with my b/f and got really aggressive! He told he was fed up with it and now i dont touch it because i respect him and dont want to put him in that situation! The problem is her and she needs to dd something about it! xxx
2006-10-06 03:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should go to an AA meeting or get help with a counselor. If she won't go, you should go to get some help on how to deal with her. I would also suggest that if she isn't going to get help, you should find someone else who doesn't drink. If this one doesn't change, she will only drag you down with her. There are plenty of other women who don't drink. Find one that you can love and marry. You might even try going to church to find one. Most Bible believing church women don't drink at all.
2006-10-06 03:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's actually insecure about your relationship. somehow that happens to me too. when i drunk i got really emotional and start crying and pointing my boyfriend what he has done, and things that has been troubled my mind and i couldnt say to him when i was sober.
and it is definately NOT a drinking problem since i only drink like once in couple of months, and got drunk easily.
now my boyfriend really think is not a good idea for me to get drunk. lol!
2006-10-06 03:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by gikasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about this when she's sober. It sounds like she has issues that she needs to deal with - so maybe some counselling would help.
See how the conversations goes and be supportive - but this is bound to be affecting you badly, so she needs to know this.
2006-10-06 03:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by Felidae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋