why do a lot of gay men talk with a lisp and wear feminine clothes...?

Question

dont you think that if you just acted like a man you wouldnt get so much sh it? you dont have to paint your toes and wear capri pants with pink tank tops to be gay...

okay i need to add that i am very well aware that NOT all gays are like this...but i do see a lot of gay men around here that ARE. I have no problem with gayness or lesbianonage my problem is wiht all the flambouancy

i should have expected a bunch of BS from y'all. I though i had made it very clear that you homosexuality isnt a problem...i just wanted to know why men arent acting like "men". my view on men may be sterotypical, but i was only trying to make the point that MOST PEOPLE WOULDNT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOU SEXUALITY IF YOU DIDNT FEEL THE NEED TO THROW IT IN THEIR FACE....

and i am amused at all of you that instead of answering a question felt the need to try bash me while whining abou tbeing bashed yourselves...a bit hypocritical wouldnt you say??

Answer 1

They don't talk like that... Or act like that... I know several gay people... None of thm are like that...

Answer 2

Well having read so many of these hate and gay bashing questions over the last few months on here i have come to several conclusions as to who these people are and why they do this.

1..There kids that aren't too bright and really don't know enough about anything to answer or ask a question with any confidence.
2..Gay haters and homophobic people who are so scared of there own sexuality they just cant face it so they set out to distance themselves from gays by having a sad little bash on a free question site.
3..God botherers that really cant be happy with there own faith (or who don't really believe anymore) and are terrified that someone may be enjoying life better.
4..Sad or jealous people that are so desperately lonely and unfulfilled in their lives that this may be their only form of communication,a lot don't answer any questions but just post hate and then sit back and watch the reactions.
One way or the other they seem to have been left behind on life's journey and bitterly resent that so they roll their disappointment and frustration into a bitter little ball and post some vile hate on this site.I suppose we shouldn't mind too much because if they didn't have this outlet they may have to open a vein to deal with the sadness and disappointments in their lives.

Either way its so sad to watch,the poor attempts at wit and the desperate lengths they will go to,to get attention.
To respond to them just drives them into a frenzy of activity i suppose it make them feel that they matter to someone rather than just sitting alone and unwanted in front of there monitors because no one wants them or is too interested in them,its very very sad really.

So to all of the above if posting hate makes you feel alive go ahead it matters to no one really,and on here your safe to do it because no big bad gay can actually reach you.
Your like a little fluffy dog behind a screen door on the porch barking and snapping because you have a nice screen door protecting you.Hate all you like gay people are here to stay and there is nothing you or your hate postings can do to change that!

So go on vent till your eyes bleed no one cares.

"hugs"

Answer 3

It is an affect that bottoms sometimes use to attract hyper masculine tops.

Not bashing you just tell ing you why.

Also the majority of homosexuals do not do this and a large part of them abhor this practice
I am bisexual and a g0y and g0ys are not into anal sex and gender bending. But truly it is a very small and very vocal minority of gay men who do this.

Answer 4

Listen dear, by the looks of your pic, YOU are in no position to judge fashion. You need to drop a few pounds and take a cardio class or two. A trip to a cosmetics counter wouldn't hurt..and I'm not talking Walmart.

Answer 5

I know what you are talking about, I have been around some gay men, that look and talk as if they are trying to prove to themselves that they are gay, but on the other hand I have been around some really good looking manly men, that are gay as well. I think it is half and half, some do and some don't. I guess it's all in how they want their selves to be portrayed. I really don't care how they act, anyway they decide to do it, is their preference.
Take care and have a wonderful day!

One more thing, I have also been around people with a lisp, and they are not gay, everyone is different.

Answer 6

I am so sick of this question....They are no different then people that dress in black clothes with mohawks, people that wear dark makeup, or older woman that out line their lips with dark lip liner then put on their lipstick. They are all doing the same thing....expressing themselves....who made the rule that only women can wear pink? Why is it ok for you to wear your husbands shirt but if he put on your blouse there is something wrong with him?

Answer 7

Just like valley girls, or New Yorkers, or a southern drawl, that lisp is just an accent. Nothing more but an accent, picked up from hanging around others who have that accent. As far as the feminine clothes go, thats what they like, so thats what they wear. Hope that helps.

Answer 8

We answer questions like this about 50 times a week. Go look in the archived questions!

Answer 9

Didnt u mentor us? lol jst kidding.

Wen a stereotype is invengted, it gets 2 da point wer it is placed in da community. Sorry if u dont understand. let me explain simpler. A dude cums out, he sees da tv, an says hey das how i should act. Das how it happens.

Why? Cause dat way dey get picked on, an not many peeps like dem at all. So dey dont get attached. In da end dey feel better dat way cause of dese tings.

Answer 10

You're just a gay basher, must be so ugly you're jealous of men looking better in a mini than you do. I think men in nylons are very sexy, much sexier than a BBW with a twinkie in her mouth.

Answer 11

Well not that im flamboient by any means but I also don't feel the need to go around in carharts and smell like **** all day either.