My boyfriend doesn't talk to me too much.He's just very quite and shy.He doesn't talk to me about problems he even has.He never express his feeling with me its nearly 2 months since i met him.
2006-10-06 03:49:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to let him know that you want him to open up to you. He may feel that he doesn't have anything important to say. Prod him a bit by asking questions, and talking about things he is interested in.
2006-10-06 03:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend is the same way, very shy and never talks about his feelings. As much as I have tried to get him to open up to me, I've excepted the fact that maybe thats just how he is. Don't give up on him, don't love him any less, just make sure that he knows that you're there for him, if he ever decides he needs to talk.
2006-10-06 10:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Srah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see it doent mater whether he expresses himself to u or not if he loves u its certain that his behavior will give u all positive signs. actually true love is unexpressed. If u both are joint emotionaly then u their is no need to express ur self. he might think that his overtalking habit will generate an feeling of boreness toward him in ur heart. i m mot saying that this is the reasion but this might be the reasion.
2006-10-06 11:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Royalsoul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, me and my girlfriend do this thing were we just ask each other questions about ourselves and answer. This is a great way to start a conversation and a good way to get close with a loved one.
2006-10-06 10:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by JU510 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, some people just don't talk a lot. Besides, it's only been 2 months, do you really want him to "spill his guts" every time you two are together?!?
2006-10-06 10:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I guess your the talker in this relationship. Well that's OK. I bet he talks when he get upset when you get up and leave him right?
So what do you want from him? You want to change him? You want to talk about things he is interested so what is he into?
2006-10-06 10:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what your question is. You said he is quite and shy, I am sure he was that way two months ago when you met him so dont think you can change him, he is who he is so accept it or move on.
2006-10-06 10:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what it comes down to. He's either scared, haveing an affair, or he wants to end it. But I wouldn't jump to conclusions just ask him why he isn't talking to you.
2006-10-06 10:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋