I've had a friend for the past 10 months who's great.We were best friends and somehow,my feelings for him changed.I'm in love with him & he knows it.We do everything together.We live the lives of a relationship(intimacy too),but he's not ready b/c of a bad past relationship.He asked me to wait for him,& I have.But,now our time together has been shortened.He doesn't call as much & doesn't invite me over half as much.We got into an altercation a couple of weeks ago and went 2 weeks without talking.But,he called back and everything was good for the next two days.Now,he's back to not calling and answering my calls.He's not my boyfriend,so he has no reason to jump to my calls,but he's been doing it for so long until it hurts when he doesn't.What are some steps to get back to the friendship we once had,before intimacy and feelings got involved?I have a feeling that now,I'm not the only girl and the time is shortened b/c all of us have to share him.Any advice?Will he ever come back around?
2006-10-06 03:41:10 · 4 answers · asked by Charlies_Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It look as though you need some sisterly advice. First and foremost anybody that claim that they been hurt before is not ready to commit to anything. And sometimes men like the fact that they have someone to talk to. and come to when they are in need. I think that you should've kept the relationship at a friendly basis. I think to him you were his partner, his friend, his companion. Good Luck with this.
2006-10-06 04:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Jacksonville, FL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money, Love, Power, and Sex. Not necessarily in that order
2006-10-06 10:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAN'T GO BACKWARDS, WHEN YOU HAVE GONE BEYOND. TIME TO MOVE ON AND FIND A NEW FRIEND.
2006-10-06 11:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boobs
2006-10-06 10:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by preston j dog 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋