why would my brother-in-law flirt with me. could he really like me because he has been doing for awhile or is he just testing me
2006-10-06 03:04:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Straight up ask him, especially if it is making you uncomfortable.
2006-10-06 03:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well aren't you full of yourself.
Here is my question. Do you think that family want a "slut in law" that sleeps around with any of the family member? NO? then just tell you husband what up and tell him give your brother in law a smack on the back of the head as a warning to knock it off.
If you feel uncomfortable about it speak up girl. That's call being an adult.
2006-10-06 03:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husbands older brother has always flirted with me! I would never give him the time of day either. He always made it a point to be really nice to me. He also used to compliment me on my looks and how hot I was. I didn't like it very much and I ignored him alot. My husband never said anything about it either. To this day he still tries to be really nice to me and I give him the dirtiest looks and walk away. He has been shunned by the rest of the family due to a marital issue. There is a big clue right there he was a cheater on his wife! If you do not like him doing this to you tell him to back off and you love your husband not him! Tell your sister what is going on to! If she gets made at you then she doesn't care how you feel!
2006-10-06 03:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off i wouldn't say anything to your sister as of yet, because she might get offended and fly off the handle before you really know anything for sure...but never give in a flirt back with him. Some men will test you just to see how loyal you are to your siblings....so don't fall for it....i would suggest just asking him, and if he wasn't doing it on purpose just apologize and explain your accusations and move on...whatever you do, don't come off rude or offended when u approach him with the situation or he might just blow it out the door even more then necessary.
2006-10-06 03:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually to answers.
1. Yes, he may be testing you. He may be trying to find out if you will fit into the family. That, of course, is if your in-laws are a close knit family and wants to make sure you are dedicated enough to be part of a loving family.
2. Yes, he may be trying to sleep with you if the first thing I brought up is not true. That is the most disrespectful thing one brother can do to the other...satisfy your sexual urges with your brother's wife. Just tell him your not interested (maybe you are) and threaten to expose him to his brother if he continues.
My sister-in-law done the same to me...flirty, exposing herself very provocatively and I told her she is pretty but her sister is the one I love so knock it off!
Hope this helps!
2006-10-06 03:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know, but whats your opinion about it is important. You can decide to play along or not. You know about it and if you dont like it, dont do anything or tell him straight that you dont want to go along with it. But dont lead him on and then try to turn around. Then every one will say its his fault but in the mean time its you. You the girl. You control it. If you like it dont cry afterwards.
2006-10-06 03:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by paypaldoppie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would speak to him about this. After all he is your sisters husband. Do you want to loose your sister if this continues? I hope not. Tell him to stop it because you feel uncomfortable. Your sister should come first. Take Care
2006-10-06 03:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by sam04m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Testing you me A.S.S. my bro in law did the same, the slime ball practicaly wanted to drop in bed with me. I told him what he was doing made me uncomfortable.
He cant look me int he eye till today.
its been 5 years. Tell himt o stop, or it will look like you tried to grab him from his wife.
2006-10-06 03:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him and see wats up. If he is flirting with you just tell him ur not interested.
2006-10-06 03:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by baker_shay_nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the reason you need to tell him to stop.His behavior may lead to marital problems for both couples.
2006-10-06 03:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flee.he is testing you so he can tell your sister.Tell your sister.
2006-10-06 03:08:57 · answer #11 · answered by holla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋