I never had this problem but I know people who have and still do have this problem.
Have you ever had anybody who wanted to get with you but you have NO romatic interest in them whatsoever? They'd try just about anything and the more you reject them, the more they try. It's like they just do get it.
2006-10-06 02:53:13 · 14 answers · asked by Lady Tee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have had that problem before. What I did was called his boss and let them know that he will not stop calling my job and could cost me my job. I told him that I was very concerned that he would sneak up on me when I am outside on the streets as he use to do that. His boss made the effort to meet with me after work and took me to the police station and I filed a report on him. They then notified him to stay away from me and neither him nor any of his friends can contact me in any way. Once he knew his name was in that precinct, he backed off with an apology.
2006-10-06 03:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the stalker that I am. You have possibly already let him down numerous times the nice way and what has that got you....
Time to get dirty, let him know how you really feel.
Thats the only way I learned, when girls are complete bitches it is a serious turn off.
Sure you make an enemy but you lose a stalker.
Good LUCK!
2006-10-06 10:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had that 2 or 3 times.
It felt a bit helpless...what can you do when a girl likes you and you feel nothing special towards her. The best I could make of it tell her that I was flattered, but that there would be nothing more.
What kind of thing to tell is that....it just isn't nice !
2006-10-06 09:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister is having this problem now...he blows up her cell phone and calls her all day at work. Stand across the street from her work--comes by the house and leaves things on the doorstep. Actually I think this guy might be a stalker....
2006-10-06 09:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you friends? How do you know him?
If your friends...just tell him flat out that there is no way you are going to be with him. If he thinks there is a chance it will continue.
If he is a mental case and a stalker...to put an end to it call the local authorities...they will assist you from there.
2006-10-06 10:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that is because that girl have not carry that message clearly to that person. It is not because he can't take rejection. It is because she underestimated his feeling and she did not make a clear statement to get it clear into his head.
For example this is not how you do it.
"Thanks and I'm really flatter but I'm not really interested, I just think of you as a friend, sorry."
This is how you do it.
" HAAAAAAAAA Ya right. get the hell away from me you lossssssser!!! LOSER!!"
You get it.
2006-10-06 10:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They either like the challenge, or they are getting signals of "hope, like saying, "you nice, but..." or "I really like you, but...".
That just tells a guy that he should keep trying and you'll come around. Be direct. If it's not either of those two, then he's a mental case.
2006-10-06 10:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! I know someone in this exact type situation. Don't want to hurt the person but..... OMG!!
You don't know how people are going to react to a rejection that's the fear here!
2006-10-06 10:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once told them right in their face, I would never be any more then aquaintenances & too get the F out of my business & still they try to rape u , I had to slap her,just to get it into her head & she hates me now. I'm happier now, who needs that.
2006-10-06 09:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I DO have a friend like that and sometimes i don't want to admit it but i think with all the stalking...one day i may give in...,.
2006-10-06 09:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by Gemini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋